Sometimes i get so tired of being lonely. I am single, all my friends are backstabbers, my sisters are too caught up with each other or their friends, etc. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like there is no one in this world who is just like me. Sometimes i get frustrated. I need help!!!!!!!!! Someone plese tell me how to deal with this!!!!!! I've tried talking to my sisters but they dont understand. How would you act in a situation like this???
2007-08-09 02:56:34 · 15 answers · asked by latinaspice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make some new friends, or do something you like to do .
Its hard when a person is lonely.
If you need to talk e-mail me.
Good Luck and Take Care
2007-08-09 02:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt like that too. The best thing to do is contact those friends who have been nice to you (Im sure not ALL your friends are backstabbers) Find something you really like to do and do it.. (Go shopping, movies etc.) You may even meet new people and make friends along the way. You can also find a chat room of your interest and chat with people and get to know them, just be very careful and VERY aware of any signs that might seem off. There are crazy people online, but there are also people like you and me who feel lonely at times. ~~>mariluv505@yahoo.com, if you ever want someone to communicate with (I dont have messenger or go into chat rooms anymore after I found my other half online [and we've been together for 2 years now] but you can email me if you want a new friend) Good Luck!
2007-08-09 03:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by mariluv505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there I was always the one left out when all my so called friends got together and went out. I finnaly desided I could not wait on everyone around me to make me happy that was up to me. Get out even if you are along and do the things you like in life. While your out doing your own thing talk to others you meet. That is what I did I ran into some very nice guys and other people who liked the same things I did.
2007-08-09 03:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by rani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get comfortable with yourself first. Accept who you are, what makes you who you are. Do things on your own, like go shopping and do some the things you would do if you were in a relationship like going to the movies. Once you accept who you are inside, you'll be happier with yourself and everyone else will notice and you'll attract people that will want to hang out with you. First they have to notice that you can have a blast on your own, since you are always lonely that brings sadness. But when you are happy you draw people.
2007-08-09 03:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by pianogirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are but if your an adult - take life in your own hands. Go out - take a college course, get involved in different activities in your community, join gym, volunteer your time. There are hundreds of things you can do to meet people - just take the initiative and do it!! Forget your backstabbing so called friends - I guess your finding out they really are not friends afterall - family we cannot change but you are in charge of yourself. Good luck.
2007-08-09 03:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Suzi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually, there's nothing much I can do about it either. Sometimes I tries to talk to my friends, but none of them are interested so I'm sick of trying already.
But I guess you could try that out, it may work for you, who knows. I mean, you can find new friends to talk to, there are many people out there who lonely, who wish they could meet new people that will actually care for them. They may not have found it yet, and are still looking. I know because I'm one of them.
You're not alone in this
2007-08-09 03:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u feel like, cos i experience the same thing @ times...
I guess u just sorta keep urself busy.. and yeah.. try and make real friends... maybe go for coffee wit a couple of mates who ur not that close too... friendships could form :)
2007-08-09 03:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could get a dog. Go out to a function to meet other singles like yourself or just do more social activities. Your bound to meet someone.
2007-08-09 03:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by soulsogood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always someone like you go and found that other person, search on the places that you like being on, most likely that other person have the same taste and make you more compatible. its allways important to have a social life so you dont feel lonely...
2007-08-09 03:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by vallartamanolete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is noone like you in the whole world, that's why you are special. I feel alone and I have a wife and two kids. I think it is where we are mentally, don't isolate yourself get out and have hobbies.
2007-08-09 03:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋