These days I'm not feeling really good bcoz I feel nobody likes me & I don't have friends whereas I see other people surrounded with them. I feel as if everyone dislikes me. I don't know how to help myself. I don't understand what is that other people have that I don't.Plz can somebody help?
2007-08-09 02:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by AnGeL005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the best solution for depression is make yourself go out even if its only for a walk you never know who you might bump into and speak to don,t stay in doors and mope, the more you get out the better, good luck
2007-08-09 02:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by lovely lips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you should try to work on your self-esteem. I'm sure you have many great qualities about you, and some talents (hidden or known). Work on those. Be proud of who you are and love yourself.
Once you've made the choice to love yourself, people will see that and be drawn to you. Therefore, you will find it easy to make friends.
Secondly, maybe you can become involved in extra-curricular activities (again, focus on some talents). Or else you can volunteer somewhere (try volunteering for a place that has a career you are interested in: i.e. if you want to be a vet, donate time at the local animal shelter). You will meet people that are interested in the same things you are, and you will be able to forge friendships that way.
Lastly, if you are feeling really depressed, you may want to seek some professional help - see a school counselor, a counselor in the community, or talk with a minister at your church (if that applies to you). There is obviously something deeper to your problem than finding friends, so you should try to take care of that -- again, it is a way to start the process of loving yourself.
Just hang in there, and if you need to reach out to someone, call a counselor or talk to a trusted teacher/parent/guardian/etc. Times will change once you choose to change your mode of thinking.
Good luck to you.
2007-08-09 09:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Somebody CAN help. That somebody is your doctor. Depression is often biological and can be treated medically. Go to your doctor, discuss how you feel, and do whatever they tell you. What other people have that you don't are stable emotions, clarity of mind, and confidence. Defeating your depression will be a step in the right direction. Other people can sense your discomfort and despair, and people are not attracted to that. Overcome depression, and you'll give off better vibes. Then get out there and talk to people! You'll make friends in a hurry. Good luck!
2007-08-09 09:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up out of that Pit!
If you read all these Y.A you'll find that everyone else has so called friend problems. Friends betraying friends, best friends cheating on their boyfriends and girlfriends.
Good quality friends are extremely hard to find now days. Everyone lacks the ability to want to be a friend in order to get a friend. They are self centered.
Just realize that God said you have a friend in Him and if you go to Him he will help you find a friend you are compatible with.
Meanwhile ...there is nothing wrong with you. Friends come and they go. So get up and stop beating yourself up over this.
Get involved in a church youth group or volunteer to help others in need at a hospital. You can make friends in places you never thought you could. Find someone in need of help and you'll find a friend.
2007-08-09 09:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Chokolates4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess we all feel like that sometimes,
most people wouldn`t admit it but feeling insufficient is a natural feeling that goes along with changes you have no control over.
I don`t think that you`re being disliked but rather that this is your subjective point of view at the moment because you`re not satisfied about your life in general.
Try to look at it as an opportunity to chill out.
Life is about ups and downs,your current conditions will change,
don`t think that it`ll be like that forever.
2007-08-09 09:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by cameupflyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most teens go to that stage. maybe you should try to evaluate your actions, spend time with yourself and try to point out what is it that makes people dislike you. but if upon doing so, you are confident enough that there is nothing bad about you then you should try moving on and be yourself. get out more, try out new things and go out of your way. going out of the usual gives way to many new and wonderful things :) so try it, you might gain your TRUE FRIENDS there
2007-08-09 09:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by aprrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a teen or an adult try somthing new.if your a teen join some clubs and if your an adult try to go places in your community and do some activities to help people go to partys with mom and dad meet a person
Try it
KVb95
2007-08-09 09:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by kvb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are. But if your youth age, try some youth groups or something.
If you older then that, try some clubs out.
2007-08-09 09:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... everyone dislikes me too - I'm an American Arab... I got a sense of humor out of it... and people bear me more...
2007-08-09 09:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say u that u must not think that wat other think it doesn't matter that if others like u or not the main thing is that u must like your self first. do u know wat! out look doesnot matters ppl must look to the pplz heart not face or body . and u should also do the same and dont think that wat others hav n u dont see that wat u hav got and not othersm. so best of luck and be a good hearted person from in and out.take care
2007-08-09 09:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋