Why does it get harder to develop meaningful and caring friendships in today's world?

Question

It just seems that everyone has become wary and distrustful of people around them. I have just moved to a new country that is considered very cosmoplitan and open...but everyone i meet and speak to who also have been living there over a period of time talk about how difficult it is to develop new relationships..despite there being people from over 20 major nationalities living in this country, one ends up meeting with only one's own kind and socialise with the chosen few whom one feels 'safe' with. I find that globalisation hasnt freed the human mind- just made it more unaccepting. Any thoughts?

Answer 1

I think it's a manifestation of communication.

Via the Media we're more aware of deteriorating morals and the prevalence of scams and crimes.

Via personal communication, IDD, sms and email, we've retained our social network without relying on new encounters.

It's safer to retain the known, albeit distant relationship than risk a new encounter.

I think I recognize the country you speak of as I've seen the same characteristic over the years. The condition you describe is especially apparent in some of the fast growing MNCs currently increasing their local presence.