"when someone really loves you, they will never
hurt you. and if they do, you'll see it in
their eyes, they're hurting too."
2007-08-08 21:37:02 · 10 answers · asked by the lioness 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Normally you don't hurt the person you love. In fact you would never like to hurt the person you love. But there are circumstances when the action or the word of the loved one creates anger which dies down before long. And this creates the wave of sympathy which surges more than the usual height and at that moment you regret having hurt the person by saying or doing something in the fit of anger.
2007-08-11 16:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it should not be the process of loving but I think many people confuse pain and hurting with love because that was what they were brought up to believe as children with different life experiences from the people around them...Love is a beautiful things when love shines another wants you to grow and prosper in Union together as a couple and individually so that you can each give to the relationship what I have seen many times when relationships do not work it is because of selfishness by one parterner to get ahead for him or her self and not include the other as whole in the relationship!!!!If you feel Hurt in the process get out while you can now and come to terms with the truth you will only dig yourself in a worse hole with that other person be smart!!!
2007-08-09 10:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Rita 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you love somebode, you give them the keys to your heart.
It is like giving someone the keys to your apartment.
If you are lucky, they respect it, if you are unlucky, they wander in and trash the place.
But even when you have a wonderful partner, there are probably going to be times when they have had a rough day and they get clumsy, break a vase or spill wine on the carpet.
People can hurt others without intending to, how you and they react and recover is part of what defines the relationship.
2007-08-09 05:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kaewi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurting is almost always part of love. You will probably be hurt many times before finding the right person.
2007-08-09 05:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world is messed up, people love a lie,
in true love there is no hurt,
only blissful happiness.
2007-08-09 18:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by David L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone you open yourself up to the possibility of being hurt
2007-08-09 04:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And it effin' sucks. Love is not the beautiful thing movies and books make it seem.....really....love is savage and relentless.
2007-08-09 05:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, some don't, that's why people said, the one you loved the most is the one who hurts you the most.
2007-08-09 04:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've been reading that phrase over and over again.
2007-08-09 04:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by september 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it true.
2007-08-09 04:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋