I don't consider myself super hot or anything, but I'd say I'm pretty attractive. Anyway, whenever I see an ugly guy checking me out / staring at me / trying to get my attention, it just annoys me and kind of offends me. I feel like they think they have a chance with me, which implicates I'm unattractive enough to be in their reach. Do you think this offense I take is valid?
2007-08-08 19:08:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am flattered anyways. It's not that they necessarily think they have a chance w/ you. I check out guys all of the time that may be over my level(yes there may be 1 or 2 that are(!) jk) but it doesn't mean I don't want to stare at their as_es. Why can't they think you're cute?Just think. "Ugly" guys don't get checked out by hardly anyone. Now that would suck.
2007-08-08 19:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel flattered that someone is paying you attention, ugly or not. Just because your someones eye candy doesn't mean you have to sleep with them. Imagine all the big Hollywood stars and all the unattractive people that must fantasise over them and the many who just check them out, I mean they would be driven crazy if only the good looking fans stared at them. I would get over it if I were you and be thankful that someone finds you attractive enough to look twice. To us mere mortals who don't look like Greek gods we have to vie for attention somehow.
2007-08-09 04:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the cruelest things I've ever heard. I think you are way too caught up in your perceived "attractiveness." Your looks will fade with time and then you may be the one "annoying" and "offending" better looking guys with your stares.
If someone notices you, it's a compliment. When people STOP looking at you is when you need to worry.
2007-08-09 03:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it as a compliment. It doesn't mean that you're "within their reach," just that they find you attractive. Really attractive people get hit on by everyone and they are used to it - maybe this is why you're offended: You aren't being hit on by hotties enough?
2007-08-09 12:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Clint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are arrogant. Ugly guys need love too! You never know that might actually be thinking the same thing about you (ewww he is ugly)!
2007-08-09 07:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "ugly" ones are human beings, too. You don't have to encourage them, but you shouldn't be rude to them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and everyone has a right to participate in life.
2007-08-09 02:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by jdspianist 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wait for it, pumpkin. One day you'll be old and wrinkly and pot-bellied, wishing those "uglies" were still interested. Meanwhile, they will be settled down with people who really care about them for who they are and not what they look like.
Beauty fades.
2007-08-09 04:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by shatterbrat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to inflate your ego, but those uglies think that you're super hot. When they stop staring is when you should worry.
2007-08-09 02:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by p c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all I'm going to say is there are beautiful people that date ugly people so ,i don't believe much in to this in their reach stuff.How ever a lot of people feel the way u do,so don't worry about it.
2007-08-09 02:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are arrogantly immature. Your looks won't last as long as a marriage to a kind-hearted man should. You think because they are ugly they are not worthy of your affection. Hurry and and grow up.
2007-08-09 03:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by mcneiltony 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋