2007-08-08 18:21:07 · 22 answers · asked by kanina 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had told her recently if she does not like me, then please do not mislead me. She asked how she misled me. So, I said if she talked to me over the phone until she falls asleep, that could give me the wrong impression that she likes me.
However, recently, she did that on 2 consecutive nights.
2007-08-08 18:35:20 · update #1
Why would you need to ask? What difference does it make?
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In response to your additional info - What exactly are you trying to ask here? If you want to know if she likes you, just ask her. Or better yet, just tell her you like her, because that much is obvious. "Don't mislead me by falling asleep on the phone with me?" What does that prove? Don't talk to her on the phone that late and it won't happen. Her talking to you gives you a clue of her feelings, what does falling asleep have to do with it.
Again, just ask her if she likes you or tell her you like her. Don't ask stupid questions like "Should I ask a girl if she is LESBIAN?"
2007-08-08 18:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by pa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the real question is...do you NEED to know. If its something that you can live peacefully without knowing than I suggest you just let nature take its course. If you're interested in going out with the girl or if she's your sister (something really personal like that) then there are an infinite amount of ways to go about searching for the truth. Anyway, if you must ask, I suggest you shoot directly. Don't beat around the bush. People shouldn't be ashamed of what they are....I'm heterosexual and proud of it. I'm no better or worse..that's what I am. Good luck dude.
2007-08-09 01:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by bananas4breakfast14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls do get offended by this question, although i'm not the type that does get offended by personal questions like this. If you're really not sure, then go ahead and ask her, obvious straight women tend to be more upset by it. Just to be safe and get the answer you would like, word the question differently or cover it up. Ask her about the relationship with a girl you think she is being over-affectionate or sexual with. You could also use another gentle phrase of words if you've thought of one yourself. That would make it easier and faster for you to use this same strategy if you come accross a situation like this again.
2007-08-09 01:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by echer perros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to ask, simply look for signs.
FOR EXAMPLE:
Does she wear plaid? (Is that right? Plad maybe?)
Any hoo... Does she drive a Truck, Jeep, Pontiac, etc?
Does she have a larger dick/muscles than you?
Does she eat raw meat?
(Listen buddy you asked I answered, I'm only trying to help I ain't no Jedi)
If you wish to ask tactfully fell free to use the following lines
"Hey you like pussey too?"
"Listen I was going to go out in the woods and kill animals for fun, wanna go?" (If 'yes' then it's sure fire, if she asks for transportation ask if she ownes a Jeep, Truck, Pontiac, etc.)
"Do you like shopping at GAP, or a surplus store?"
"Are you a lesbian?"
(DISCLAIMER: person who typed all of this in is NOT responsible for life threatining injuries.)
HAVE A NICE DAY ::::)
2007-08-09 01:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by F@ BOY 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. WHY do you need to know? Something missing in your life? Is YOUR sexual preferences anyones business??! If it's an issue that SHE thinks you should know about- she'll tell YOU. If & when that happens- you "play it cool"- and see what develops...
2007-08-09 01:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave a Maxim magazine or Victoria's Secret catalog laying around and observe.
2007-08-09 01:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let her come out to you if she's going to. If it seems like she just hasn't mentioned it, you could try (casually!) pointing out or talking about a girl you think is hot, and just observe her reaction...
2007-08-09 01:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Aura 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get her into a convo about women...who you believe is "hot or not"...and carefully study her reactions. Your gaydar will tune itself eventually.
2007-08-09 01:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well why would u need to know thats kindof mean if u just go and ask her... thats like going up to a guy and say has ur balls dropped.
2007-08-09 01:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by bff 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you're a lesbian you should know, unless your gaydar is broken.
if you're a guy and you have to ask if she likes guys, she probably doesn't.
if you must ask, ask her about her past relationships and ask what their names were.
2007-08-09 01:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by what's the point 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋