Here's the most recent picture of me:
http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v697/xlx_LuScIoUs_LiPs_xlx/?action=view¤t=megan-1.jpg
I mean I go to the University of Los Angeles, I'm a nice christian woman, and I work to support myself. I don't understand why I haven't been able to find a good decent guy. Where are THEY?
2007-08-08 16:19:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
...lol...JKYour very attractive, are you psycho?...lol...jk
2007-08-08 16:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by AZTECAMAN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've seen your other postings and it doesn't seem to help you any to keep getting these Internet answers for your self esteem. you are looking for a boost and just can't find a meaningful one here. these Internet guys can tell you how hot you are all day long but it just won't help when you are away from the computer. what you need is a wingman(or wingwoman in your case) when you are walking along campus have your wingwoman go ask a guy you think is hot the same question you just asked. that way you don't have to feel the fear of rejection and your friend has nothing to lose. you just act like you didn't know she went to talk to him, when he comes over act surprised. after you do this for a while you can pick out the good and weed out the bad and have many options for a bf. at least from what i can see in the pictures.
2007-08-09 09:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...first off...you are a very beautiful girl. Not having a BF has nothing to do with your looks. So don't think that.
Second...I am 28 years old. No children, good job and a christian woman as well...and I am single also!!
As far as where the good men are...I have no idea! They are all M.I.A. as far as I can tell...
But really you are young. I would focus on yourself and your education. Learn who you are and what you want in life first. Then after all of those things, you might find the right guy for you. Enjoy life and stop worrying about men...take care of yourself and make yourself happy!
Love yourself first and all other love will stem from that!
best of luck!
2007-08-08 23:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Aryah's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, you're pretty enough. What is your personality like,??? Are you mean, hateful, have an attitude, obnoxious, etc. Are you shoving religion down someones throat.???
There has to be some kind of problem, that you're not getting a boyfriend. I just wish I was 30 years younger, and lived in Los Angeles. Good luck...
2007-08-08 23:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I wouldn't post your pictures on the web especially with info as to where you go to school. Just some advice re: safety.
That said, sometimes it just takes awhile to find someone. If you wanted just "anyone" you'd have someone by now (trust me) so trust yourself that you haven't "noticed" anyone, because when the right person comes along you will. If you worry too much about this you may take the first person who notices you are vulnerable, and that is not a good situation!
2007-08-08 23:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by soundandfury 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking? At the right places or the wrong place? Good guys are hard to come by these days mostly when it has to do with a christian sister like you, but you will have to be patient as God's time is the best!
2007-08-08 23:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kiddo C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem. OWN yourself, be confident, and act as if you could live just as well without them (while still being kind). Security and confidence are the most attractive qualities in a person. Stick to your morals, and don't compromise them for anyone. You are young, there is plenty of time to be tied down, focus on other things right now, and they will come a'runnin!
2007-08-08 23:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what you mean by nice christian woman? Maybe you are too uptight and too religious and talk about jesus and stuff like that all the time. If you do thinks like that no men atleast no normal men are gonna get attracted to you.
2007-08-08 23:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by mapleleafydude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a beautiful lady,but please-please be careful puttin personnal information out here! Be patient, let God find your next boyfriend. We don't know the wonderful plans he has for us! Just pray and he will put it in your heart perhaps to volunteer somewhere.Be somewhere,at a special moment,and you'll meet that special man! Take care!
2007-08-08 23:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nice guys are probably too shy to approach you thinking that you're either a)Taken or b) Stuck Up, a common misconception with girls as amazingly attractive as you. They figure 'She can have anyone she wants... why should I even bother?'.
2007-08-08 23:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jason V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about having a bf. when the time is right, a good decent guy will come into your life. just be confident and maybe walk up to guys and be more direct.
2007-08-08 23:23:40 · answer #11 · answered by Ducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋