Do you care what they say about you?

Answer 1

Why must I care what people say about me? Can that solve the problem of mine? I don't know, I only want to live, live for myself and for my beloved people. Life is going on and you must try by yourself, so, you needn't to care others say about you. That only makes you live harder and tired...Keep well to live well.

Answer 2

I Could Care Less Of What Other People Think Of Me, Its Their Way Of Controlling You Mentally, I Think About It Like This At The End Of The Day The Only Person I Have To Answer To Is GOD Himself And He Is The Only Person That Can And Will Judge Me

Answer 3

Well I often say to myself that I don't care but the truth is that I do and it pisses me off because I don't want to care but I do. There are somethings that I can shrug off but most of it sticks with me. I guess the reason why I am so sensitive about certain things is because I have such low self esteem from my past.

Answer 4

Hello:

I have learned over the years that people are going to talk about you behind your back no matter what. I don't waste my energy or time worrying or wondering what people say about me who cares? Do you want to know what really drives people nuts when they are talking about you behind your back?

I just smile and wave at the people who I KNOW are talking about me behind my back,because it drives these people nuts! They cannot figure how to get underneath my skin by upsetting me by whatever it is that they say about me behind my back,so when I smile and wave to them,it makes me the bigger and more mature person!

I may smile and wave at the people that I cannot stand,but that doesn't mean that I am not cussing a few choice words about them underneath my breath all the while smiling and waving at these people that I cannot stand,and they have no clue what I really think about them!

It really drives people nuts when you don't join their little cat fests where they are making fun of or gossiping about somebody wickedly behind their back. I stay away from people like that and whenever somebody has asked me about somebody else or tried to get me to say something mean about somebody this is what I have said to the gossping troublemakers:

"I'll tell you what,when you decide to GROW UP and GET A LIFE,then I will talk to you." "Until then,you need to GET A LIFE,GROW UP,and not think that you are perfect because you're not!" "I thought we got past the playground years ago,but I guess some people NEVER GREW UP and they have never learned how to act like an adult instead of a child." Then I will walk away with a smile and a wave! ;-)

Answer 5

No and you shouldn't either. The only opinions I care about are God's and my family's .... Some of my friend's opinions too.... But that's just a thought.... =)

Answer 6

Frankly speaking, I care about those words. If I didn't care then I wouldn't know how to change myself to be better. And if I'm becoming better, they wouldn't dare to speak bad words on me.

Answer 7

depends on the "they" we're talking about. some people i don't care what they think and others i care a little

Answer 8

Not anymore. It used to bother me, but now I just accept the fact that people are going to talk about you whether you're exactly like they want you to be or not. So why waste my time and energy worrying about it?

Answer 9

To a certain point-no. But if I'm in a bad mood I don't take it out on others in consideration of their feelings.

Answer 10

Yes, I guess I do, but I am a good person so I can't imagine anyone saying anything bad about me.