I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago cuz of things I didn't like that she did anyway, and she kept calling me to tell me to go back with her and that she still loved me and now she's telling me she's pregnant and that it's my son. There are possibilities that it's true and there are possibilities that she could be lying. If she is pregnant, what should I do?
Please help me out, thanks º.º
2007-08-08 14:36:37 · 17 answers · asked by francisco_rodd 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
first off tell her if she is pregnant then she needs to go to the dr, and that you will go with her......majority of the time if the girl is lying about pregnancy she will start to get nervous about you going to a dr with her. If she is, then step up to the plate, be the father....doesnt mean you have to be with her, just as long as you take responsibility for your child.
2007-08-08 14:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 05:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know if she is pregnant ask her to schedule a Dr visit and you go with her. I know many females that use "I'm pregnant" to get the guy back. Any way how does she know it is a Boy? Now if she is pregnant that is something that you are going to have to decide what tho do with the relationship and all Best of luck
I am by no means saying that she is lying but if you feel that she is I really think the Dr visit will confirm or deny what is truly going on!
2007-08-08 14:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Florek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you know it's a son if it was only 3 weeks ago? If you already know the sex, she messed around on you a lot longer ago and it most likely isn't your baby.
If it is, you need to step up and be a father. Support your child, even if you don't always support the mother. You decided to have unprotected sex, so now you must deal with the consequences.
And, if you still feel it's not yours, I agree with the other person, call Maury Povich....he seems to LOVE having shows about people like you.
But seriously, good luck.
2007-08-08 14:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by kittykates78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right she could just be lying to try and get back with you, but something that most parents dont understand is that when parents get back together just for their childrens sake that its usually not a good ending result. It would be so much easier on the child to know you seperately and happy then to know their parents together, absolutely miserable and hating eachother and ALWAYS fighting. If you want to truly get back together for eachother than thats one thing, u may be able to make it work but you have to think of the childs best interests, and he/she's parents fighting is not in their best interest. So just see if you can work your problems out and if not then end it before you there are any real issues. Good Luck!!
2007-08-08 15:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are not a professor not familiar with contraceptives or birth control. She is in the driver's seat when it comes to her pregnacy. She could terminate it against your wishes, or she could have the baby against your wishes. Either way, it does not matter what you want, even if you were the sperm donor. You could ask for a paternaty test, just to get out of the hotseat, but it only works if you are not the father. Sex does have a few bad side effects. You have obligations. Birth control is both parties responsibilities. As shallow Hal might say, "You should have thought of that before you gave her your real name."
2007-08-08 14:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women lie to try to keep an old boyfriend. Make a doctor do a check up for sure. And then make sure the DNA matches.
That'd fix most of the answers. If she can get an abortion. That would best as a pregrnancy would mess her up for the rest of her life.
Any "mourning" about the fetus can be handled by any competent counselor.
2007-08-08 16:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, You can get support and information at a pregnancy resource center, which you can find by googling optionline, or call 1800afamily. Take good care of your baby if you are pregnant. Sincerely, Runner
2007-08-08 16:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how can you know it's a "SON" already, it's too early to predict that.
Second, I know it might sound mean, but, you have to wait until the baby is born a get a DNA test done, that's the only way to know if the child is actually yours.
Good luck!
2007-08-08 14:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Butterflies 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
that funny she already knows what sex is the baby
usually it take a woman at 16 to 20 wks to be to know that sex
be smart and tell her that it is fine
once the baby is born you will want a DNA test if he is yours, you will step up to the plate and be responsible for the child
but you two together is a NO
2007-08-08 14:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋