What makes a man desireable?

Question

The way he treats those aound him? The way he struts around like a macho man. Or perhaps what he can provide for his family. His ability to stand up to hash condition in order to provide for those he loves. To continue carrying on for what he believes in even when those around him disagree. What makes a man disireable? Is it all based on looks? Tall, masculine, chisel looks, big package, etc.

Answer 1

The bulge in his pants.... his wallet.

Answer 2

How high is the sky? How deep is your love? How do we exactly know what makes a man (or a woman) "desirable"?

Fact is, collectively, we can never have a definitive answer to this type of question precisely because of the variety of human experience, expectations, background, levels of learning and understanding. Your guess is as good as mine; we can all pretend that our perception and evaluation of things (i.e. personal bias) is the best there is and we can go on believing we can not care less about others... but...

Make up your mind!

Answer 3

The most desirable men in the world are honest, aware of themselves and how others are responding to him. The most desirable men in the world are empathetic, and not afraid to feel and express his feelings as clearly as he can. The most desirable man is one who has his own ideas and his own feelings and is not afraid to express his own thoughts and emotions. He is true to himself--above and beyond anything else, he knows and practices with all his heart and soul the principle of self-trust. Because nothing, absolutely nothing is more important than self-trust. It takes a long time to get to this level of higher-consciousness, but that's what being a man is all about. And, of course, it is the same for woman. Thank you for asking your very important question. It takes a man, or at least, a man in the process of becoming more of a human-being.

Answer 4

What makes a man desireable you ask? Well for every man there is a woman and for every woman there is a man.
A man is desireable in so many ways, and only a woman could let you know what is desireable of a man.
As for me, I look for a man who is confident in him self, some one who can hold his head up high and not let jealousy & insecurity cloud his personality, a man who is certious, happy go lucky, down to earth, smart, has values, takes care of him self, and someone who wants to go some where or be someone in life.
These are just some desireable things I try to look for in a man, but like I said, every woman desires different things in a man as a every man will desire different things in a woman.

Answer 5

Strangely enough, though I'm not attracted to girls, I'm attracted to guys with more feminine characteristics. For instance, the ability or willingness to discuss things, a nurturing personality, a decent level of personal hygiene, intelligence, the willingness to admit when he's wrong, and above all, NOT taking himself too seriously. Not being afraid to be ridiculed (in a friendly way of course).

Answer 6

For me, what makes a man desirable is his personality. Eventually the way he acts affects how he looks. Right now I'm dating a comp. geek and i think he's the little cutest guy ever!<3 I think a girl usually like a man/boy w/ a nice personality, a sense of humor, who has a want to keep her and those around him happy and safe, someone who's honest, who's confident in himself, someone who they can trust and rely on, someone romantic maybe, and so forth. What kind of guy that a girl would want depends on the girl. What you said above, the way he treats others around him, how he can prvide for his family, his ability to stand up to harsh conditions in order to prvide for those he loves, being able to continue carrying on for what he believes in even though those around him disagree with him all matter. Those things are the good things. If a girl only bases her guy on looks she is shallow. Besides, no person is perfect and that's what makes everyone unique. If u go around looking for people with certain looks instead of basing people on their personalities, u'll never truly be happy with them. Btw remember: don't change yourself unless it's for the better because things can go wrong after. You should look for someone who likes you for who you are too. Girls also like a guy who can take a joke, who doesn't take himself too seriously, and who is willing to listen to them and help them out when they're going through troubling times. Another thing girls also like are guys who are gentle and who treat them with kindness and don't act as if girls are something to be lead and treated as if they are nothing but insecure pets. Girls also like guys who are not brutally honest to them. I can only end this with is: BE YOURSELF! ^.^

Answer 7

A man worth having is a man who would love unconditionally, be understanding, always try to do the right thing, Always stick up for what he believes in but doesn't condemn someone else's, and is always there for the ones he loves....thats it. Any other answer would be based on looks or personality...and i think that is based on personal perference.

Answer 8

Beauty as it was once said, is in the eyes of the beholder the same thing can be said for desirability. What one person finds attractive may turn another person off.
Fortunately, by being yourself and not trying to fit into some other mold, you can find the perfect match for you and for them.

Answer 9

Someone who makes me feel like a princess!
I don't care for a "Macho man", Not much into looks. I like a tall man with "something to hold on to". I actually like imperfections. I agree with your other points.

Answer 10

The manner in which he puts the needs of others beore his own.
The way he looks into your eyes whth no desire but to listen to what you mean.
Strength that can hold a soap bubble and not break it.
The ability to listen to a child scream " I hate you " and look back with love.
K.L.S. aka Bemo

Answer 11

first, the chiseled look is gay...metrosexuals are unattractive to me (I'm a chic). What matters the most to me is a good communicator, a guy who can tell me whats on his mind without arguing, who can express his love for me and a guy who contributes 50/50 without me begging him to and somebody who wont tell me i'm fat. Good hygiene is great but i don't care too much about b.o. alittle is ok. i dont care about the label on his clothes or the car he drives. Intelligent, open-minded, funny!, likes to read non fiction,