how can you verify LOVE?

Answer 1

This is how I might mess up your wannabee marriage so if you don't want that to happen don't read this.

Evry person who has thought that they are certain they want to get married has come to me with some sort of doubt.

On asked if he was making the right decision, if she was the one, how would he know.

Another asked me did I think she fit in, would he be faithful, how would she know?

Many have asked do you think he/she will change, or worse yet he /she tells me theat she/he will change.

This is the deal breaker question though I actually have a two hour test for people who want to find out what their chances are of staying married.

The simplest but must reliable way to tell if it is love is to picture youself with anyone else and know that it is better, not think, not wish, not guess, but; actually know it would be better.

If there is another person aout there better then it is not love, or at least not the kind of love you base a lifetime on.

Out of all the people that have said it could not be better when asked this question none of them have separated, cheated, or got a divorce. I have checked to make sure. Of course some people are afraid of my tests so they take a chance and well that is why divorce lawyers get paid the big bucks.

I'll give you another experiment to do for practice. Make a list of all his faults and don't pretend he has none because you will spot them later on, and assume they will only get worse, would you marry him then, knowing you can't fix them? You can't fix them. Don't lie to yourself and think you can. If you are under the believe that you can change a person for the better then believe me you are not ready for marriage and if you don't put down a problem because you think you already changed that one then you are not ready for marriage.

"But I never said I wanted to get married!"

You never said you wanted to buy a beer but they only verify things when it is time to get a license or get a job. That is marriage in this case , a license and a job.

Answer 2

That's the thing about love: you can't verify it... you can only feel it.

Answer 3

You can't desribe true love really. But I'm gonna try to anwser your question. Love is when that person takes your breath away! when you look or think about that person you smile instantly. When your not with that person u miss them even more. Just seeing that person makes your day. You'll do any and everything for that person. Thats a summary of my version of love.

Answer 4

there is no defenition that gets all the points some are like strong fellings between another love is kind of like an emotion everyone has them its undescribable

Answer 5

The proof is in the pudding. Time, respect, loyalty, kindness, being there for you. Loving you for who you are.

Answer 6

wen u r keen to provide up ur existence for them. wen their smile ability each thing to u and u wud do something to maintain them chuffed. wen u care and pray bout them. wen they r the final element u thought beore u slept and the 1st element wen u wakened. and somewer u in simple terms understand tht u love them and u will nvr sense the comparable way bout all of us ever.

Answer 7

you cant. true real love is something you can not describe. no words can amount to the definition of it.

Answer 8

trust me you just know from the bottom of your feet to the tip of the hair on your head... you just know

Answer 9

Just by heart .

Answer 10

I love you and you love me(barney j/k)