A few months ago, I wasn't there for my boyfriend when he needed me the most. After that he said that he shut his feelings off and everything just hasn't been the same. He works more now, most of the time actually, and only sets aside a day or two a week to see me. His passion for me, i feel, has died. I am not his #1 priority anymore. Instead I feel like i am at the bottom. To add to this, i just went away on vacation for a month. Before we were just starting to get back to being normal. Now that I'm back I feel like we've grown even more distant. He says he still loves me the same. when we see each other he still acts mostly like how he used to. The only thing is that he seems distant when we don't see each other. Not picking up my calls, not calling to tell me about his day or to say goodnight, not replying to my emails like he used to. Am i being overly insecure? Will things ever go back to how they were before? Do I just need to wait and be patient until he gains my trust again?
2007-08-08 12:04:40 · 1 answers · asked by Maria L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he is really annoyed with you and he is somewhat paying you back, wanting you to hurt also.
He says he loves you, but he may also be afraid of giving himself 100% to you for fear of you letting him down again.
If you truly love him, you will find a way to let him know how much you want this relationship to work. Tell him how sorry you are for letting him down (not being there for him). That you will do what ever it takes to make it work.
If you both can move past all of this, In some ways your relationship could get more stronger. But you have to work at it.
Good Luck, Faith
2007-08-08 12:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋