Ive been through so much I am 19 years old and have been through 10 surgeries due to having a c-section, and serious life threatening surgeries my body looks like I'm a stitch up doll. I hate how I look and I have no confidence at all. I want to make a new change for myself to get the confidence again so I can be a better mother and wife, but dont have the money. Is there a way that I can get donations to have a change for the better and regain my confidence once again? Take away a 12 inch scar underneath my chest and have breast reduction?
2007-08-08 10:24:03 · 5 answers · asked by kagome931 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The c-section is not my problem and my husband loves the way i look. It is me who doesnt. But anyways the scar that i am talking about is that I had a spleenactamy which a surgeion miss up big time the scar underneath my chest was suppose to me 3 inches long but I have a 12 inch scar underneath my ribs that looks like a train track. which bothers me ever so not just because of looks but because of the pain of it being so big and painful
2007-08-08 10:38:09 · update #1
a breast reduction can be covered by insurance so you don't need any charitable donations for that.
I'd be proud of the c-section scar though. you could also always try scarguard or mederma or some scar lightener.
2007-08-08 10:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had been to weddings wherein they have got made a donation in lieu of favors. They located a card - very similar to a location atmosphere card which acknowledged what they did and what charity they picked. One marriage ceremony did this for a breast melanoma society and each and every card had a purple ribbon pin connected. I have no idea approximately this for weddings. It is a quality gesture however you would make the donation besides as an alternative of constructing it a want. Some individuals consider just like the bride and groom "cheaped out" whilst it got here to favors due to the fact that nobody is aware of how so much used to be honestly donated and they do not come away out of your marriage ceremony with something. Some suppose this can be a pleasant thought. I do not care both approach particularly.
2016-09-05 12:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, look at it on the bright side. Everytime you see that scar, think of the beautiful child that you brought into this world and ask yourself was it worth it?
I'm hoping that you would answer that question YES!
Wait for the future, save up money, if you get enough then get plastic surgery.
Plus if your husband likes the way you look, then everything is fine! Love your body the way it is!
2007-08-08 10:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Unless friends or family take it up for you. Or go on a TV show like Extreme Makeover. But it seems like you deserve it, Good Luck!
2007-08-08 10:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
cry me a river! we all have problems. but we have to just take what life gives us!!! its your brain and heart thats gonna give you the confidence again not the plastic! and why would you want someone who doesnt love the real you???? if you have a child, its time to grow up!!!! you need to teach the child that beauty is not just on the outside!!! get with it kid!
2007-08-08 10:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by stop it 5 · 3⤊ 4⤋