Need advice badly 15 and just miscarried!!!! i think?

Question

I went to the clinic today turns out i was 9 weeks preg. Thought i should have had things checked out because of a missed period last month, obviously something was going on. This morning i woke up as usual and felt perfectly fine untill i was walking round town with cramps , even thought i thought i was on my period because of bleeding ( was spottin sunday night n monday ) should have known =S . Anyway finally had a urine test done at the clinic which showed positive .. came home later on , went up for a shower but something wasnt right lots of clots and a lump of something i guess came out , not too sure if it is my baby or not

please help im really confused and shocked mums taking me to the docotors tomorrow to get checked out i just hope this isnt the end .

Answer 1

first step: stop having sex. you're 15, you don't want a kid.

Answer 2

Hon, it sounds like you miscarried. You need to get to a doctor asap. I am sure you were very excited at the thought of having this baby and even though you are extremely young to have a child of your own, I am sure you loved it. I have had 2 miscarriages and the best way I found to deal with the loss was to believe that the baby wasn't healthy enough to survive and if it had, there would have been something terribly wrong with it. This is a second chance for you. Focus on school and doing the right thing. Wait to have that baby until you are financially and emotionally ready to care for it. Even if you wait 7 years, you will still be a very young mother. Give it time and good luck.

Answer 3

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this. If you're bleeding and passing clots, there is a good chance that you're miscarrying. Please take good care of yourself, and don't blame yourself. most miscarriages ARE NOT caused by anything the mother did or didn't do but rather by defects in the baby that would have caused it to be unable to live...and doctors estimate that 90% of women will have a miscarriage in their lifetime though some won't realize they're pregnant and will just think it's a period. It is also possible to have bleeding during pregnancy and everything turn out fine...I had period-like bleeding for 5 days during my pregnancy and my son is fine. So all I can say is hope for the best but prepare yourself for the worst, just in case. Good luck.

Answer 4

All, right, all right. The main deal is over. Do yourself a favor and don't try to have yet another baby "for you to have and love all by yourself".

They aren't toys. And you aren't a parent. So start acting like a normal kid. It is JUST NOT TIME yet.

Wait 5 years, then give it another try. I promise you, I'd look WAY different from that end of the spectrum!

Answer 5

I have had 3 miscarriages. What you described sounds like you are indeed having a miscarriage. Loosing a baby NO MATTER WHAT AGE HURTS...PERIOD. I do agree with other members that you should go to the doctor today, not tomorrow.

Answer 6

Yep sounds like a miscarriage ro me. Why is your mom waiting untill tomorrow? Why are you having sex, especially unprotected? If I was your mom I would get you on birth control as soon as possible.

Answer 7

Get to the doctor now! You probably lost the baby and need to be checked immediately.

Answer 8

tomorrow?!?!?! YOu need to go to the doctor now if it is a miscarriage it's not only bad for the baby but potentially very bad for you. Iwould recomend going to the ER now!

Answer 9

That definitely sounds like a miscarriage to me.

Answer 10

I m sorry to here this but i think its miscarriage, this happen with me too.. go to doctor as early as u can.

Answer 11

Sounds like a miscarriage, yes. And while you're at the doctor get put on birth control as well. You have no business having children at 15; you're a baby yourself.