Do you have inner struggles?

Question

With yourself. Maybe there are some things you don't like about yourself. The kind of things I'm talking about are deeply personal and really, I don't know why. They are the type of personal hurdles that you don't tell people. What did you do to deal with these issues?

Answer 1

I think everyone has some sort of inner stuggles. There are things about ourselves we want to change all the time. It would be easier to answer if you would give a little more information but if there is something you really don't like about yourself your should try to find out what it is and really work on it. It might help to talk to someone who can support you...family member, spouse, girlfriend. Someone who will try to understand what your feeling and help you sort it out.

I wish you the best.

Answer 2

Wow, tough question. I carried around deep deep anger for many years after losing 2 sons to stillbirths, it was ruining my life. Of all things I ran into an article in a magazine in my doc's office one day about a woman that started The Miss Foundation. I contacted her and after going back and forth I finally agreed to an interview, and writing my story for their magazine. I cried, sobbed all the way through writing that article, and it was healing for me. After that I became a volunteer for Miss, as a Mentor. Every time I meet with a new family I grieve again, but I also brought my boy's into my family. It's something that people don't talk about, but it is finally being brought into the light. I don't know if this is what you were looking for.... But I hope it helps a little.

Answer 3

All the time. Some times one side wins some times the other the inconsistencies really mess with us. Drive you crazy. Once and awhile there is a little unanimity and then we seam almost as I, but then one motive or another has to speak up and ruin the calm. Most of the time there just isn’t time to deal with it. But if we have the time we can usually come to a consensus while we sleep at night.

Answer 4

Im dealing with them now....learning to trust my instincts and stear clear of the "controlling /addictive personality" its a struggle that i have had for many years i am finally taking time for myself and not rushing into a romantic relationship. Im also learning to talk about my issues and not bottling them up inside....It definately helps to talk about it with friends/supportive people

Answer 5

I definitely do, I desire to live in a certain way and up to a certain standard yet so often I fall short, I have to get up again and carry on. Sometimes it's like a mini-Jekyll & Hyde......

Answer 6

Doesn't everybody?! Me, I just finally accept them for what they are - learning experiences.