Ok even though im straight i grew up in this community u can read my questions and you'll know anyways last night i went to a gay bar like i usually do and talk to some of my gay friends there but there is this new guy there that keeps bullying me around and keep telling me to leave because "us gay people don't need u straights in our life" all my life i've been trying to give equal rights and stop homophobia but every time i go there he keep messing with me i can easily pun.ch this chump but i don't want to cuz everybody knows me as this nice person what should i do to stop him.
Some people over there told me to make out with him because they think he has a crush on me i doubt it and im not gonna do it what else can i do
2007-08-08 06:33:02 · 16 answers · asked by Joey Richwood 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
whoa know this is starting to sound like a queer as folk show but usually they go up to him and just say stop all he does is pushes them around as well, u know what next time i go there im gonna go punch this **** load out of that bastard i don't care how nice i am.
2007-08-08 06:54:40 · update #1
Tell him to mind his own business, and if he persists in bothering you, deal with him as you would deal with any bully. And don't listen to those who tell you to sleep with him. That's ridiculous!
2007-08-08 06:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not that I agree with the gay thing(and before anyones says anything, I am in cultures and groups in general) but if he is the new guy and you do have gay friends, let him know that you have been going there alot longer than he has. The bartender should back you up on this if you are a regular.
2007-08-08 14:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have recently learned that no matter how nice you might be someone will still hate you. Since you are in physical contact with him i would take him aside and say, 'You need to stop talking to me the way you have been. And if you don't I am going to put a stop to it for you. Now I don't know what your problem with me is but either speak your mind now or let it drop."
2007-08-08 13:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He know that some straight people are homophobic and makes a bigger deal out of it by thing every straight person is homophobic and is there to pick on gay people.
2007-08-08 14:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by A Journey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really much you can do. There are rude people of every race, orientation, and gender. You can try explaining to him that you are there to see your friends. It is frustrating though going to pick up a man and having to sort through them because some are straight.
2007-08-08 13:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's been hurt by straighties and is prejudice now. Try going to a straight bar. Happy Bar Hopping!!!
2007-08-08 13:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by I only love you when I drink 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are entitlled to go into any bar you wish without being hassled-the truth probably is he fancies you but knows you are straight-so he can't handle it. i would tell him "say what you like-but touch me and i will smash the f**king granny out of you" pointing as you say it loudly-that ought to get the message across-it worked for me!!.
2007-08-08 14:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by tony c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u could try confronting him explaining what is that u do and point out how he is being no different than a homophobe.
2007-08-08 13:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Selym 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call management over and say this dudes harassing you, if that don't work warn him if he keeps it up you will knock him out, im gay and i hate reverse bigotry, and that's what your experiencing
2007-08-10 17:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by sibilance41 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do your other gay friends say/do when this occurs?
I find it hard to believe they would allow this sort of behavior.
maybe you should ask them for advice and assistance dealing with this guy
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2007-08-08 13:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋