What I am trying to ask here is. If your husband or boyfriend was at work and we will say female A co-worker tells him that female B that works with them sleeps with several other males there. Then the next day the other female B tells him female A sleeps with several men there. Why would they want to tell him or gossip to him about this kind of stuff knowing he is in a relationship or married? Why would they tell him female issues about themselves or personal things about them as well? Is it normal work talk or something else? How would they get into a conversation about this anyways?
2007-08-08 06:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by Moon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you mean pretty close, how close and will it become anything else or has it already?
2007-08-08 06:18:22 · update #1
And when you ask him how did a conversation like this begin and he gets defencive, could that mean something?
2007-08-08 06:33:57 · update #2
All I can say is this is far too common and can cause domestic trouble at home. This practice has a way of backfiring on everyone involved.
2007-08-08 06:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, this is NOT normal co-worker conversation. Where do they work? At the mall? This is very highschool.
Those two hens may have something against one another and are probably just telling everyone about one another's business to ruin the other's reputation.
Tell your husband/bf to stay away from them. People like that are poison.
2007-08-08 06:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by christyn79 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, sounds like a horrible place to work. Obviously the two girls hate each other. It may be that that's the reason behind the conversations- they just want to be hateful to the other girl. It's all inappropriate- the talking and the content. That wouldn't fly at most workplaces.
2007-08-08 06:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by RSJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My now ex husband always got too involved in the personal lives of his co-workers. He ended up having an affair with one of them. You have to worry about the situation they are in when they are having these conversations. Is it after work at a bar or in the office lunchroom? Why do they feel they can open up to him in that manner? Is he putting himself in a situation where inappropriate feelings can develop?
2007-08-08 06:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This makes me feel incredibly uncomfortable. It breaks the boundaries of professionalism at work and leads to conflict between staff members. Things like that should be kept to themselves. In my experience women who talk about sex to men at work are being quite inappropriate and usually have hidden agendas. It shouldnt be considered normal. For example.... my partner started a new job and then a woman he works with started discussing her sex life with him. Felt slightly uncomfortable about that. Then she started making him lunch every day and bringing it in. Hey, thats MY job! Felt even more uncomfortable. Then there was a works function after work and she said he could go to her house and shower and change after work...... OK, boundary well and truly crossed there! So chat can start as one thing and lead on further, best to not start it in the first place.
(By the way, I solved the woman problem..... took him to work, picked him up, drove home, showered, changed, made sure he saw me wearing my bestest ever underwear.... drove him to party and stayed with him, kissed him loads and paid him millions of attention, made myself look as stunning as possible then drove him home afterwards..... and pleased to say I'm at least 10 years younger than the other woman!)
2007-08-08 06:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by janey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either they don't like each other and are trying to get everyone else in the office involved in their drama or they are trying to feel him out to see if he is receptive to breaking his marriage vows with them. Neither reason is good. He should avoid these women as much as possible and not get into personal conversations. If he feels uncomfortable, he should tell them to keep the conversation professional. If this makes you uncomfortable and not him, you should tell him it makes you feel umcomfortable and he needs to set some boundaries with these women. If it continues and he feels uncomfortable, he should tell his boss.
2007-08-08 06:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by nspir8ion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that people who gossip will gossip to ANYONE. They are not trying to get him to respond. It would be good to steer clear of these types, however, because they will repeat anything he says, and most likely twist it to make it sound juicy.
2007-08-08 06:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't believe some of the things I've been told at work. It's usually harmless.
2007-08-08 06:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, it sounds like inappropriate conversation at the office
2007-08-08 06:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by passionate 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. That is wromg. He should tell your coworkers your problems. He stepped over you. Put him in his place and dump his a**. Don't put up with bs.
2015-03-30 08:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋