2007-08-08 05:20:49 · 38 answers · asked by Twiggy 3 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Malaysia
Betrayed & hurt. Then I would go away all by myself to an isolated place for a few days to think things over. And if I still can't forgive her, then there's only one way out - divorce but only after I have exhausted all options.
2007-08-08 13:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Naruto 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can you spell D I V O R C E...can you say D I S L O Y A L T Y. Can you see yourself living in a one room apartment, buying frozen dinners that are cooked in a microwave and seeing your kids every other weekend at best? I hope the spouse takes the idiot who does this for everything they have an then some. In otherwords, total destruction of the unfaithful's life.
2007-08-08 05:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. For me an affair says that the person was willing, not only to break the vow they made, but to engage in a consistant pattern of deception. Not to mention being cavalier with your emotions, and the humiliation of it being with someone you know. If it had been a one time thing I would have been willing to believe a moment of weakness may have been the culprit, but.............you have to live with that person. Can YOU get over it? Should you?
2007-08-08 05:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well if I were married and my spouse admitted that they cheated on me with someone i knew.
it's plain and simple really.
See I'm a Scorpio, so I am afraid I would have to go out buy a shot gun and shoot both people for the fact being, I know I won't be able to forgive and forget so I would have to eliminate the problem.
2007-08-08 05:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Soda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it hurts...
However, there must be a reason for him/her to do it. Find out what it is and if it's something that he/she deserves another chance.
I would give him/her some credit for telling you the truth. At least he/she wanted to stop it. Otherwise, he/she would not have told you.
Everybody deserves a second chance as we are human and we all have weaknesses. If you have kids, you'd better be really careful for what you are deciding to do as it will affect your kids physically and mentally as well.
Think responsibly!
2007-08-08 05:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by song bird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they'd wanted to be together so badly, I'd let them go. But that also means that it is the end of my relationship with 'her' to my buddy/someone I know.
Life goes on from there... and perhaps I'd rather not get married at all for the rest of my life after hearing all sorts of crap from people's relationships and seeing the rise and fall of life itself.
2007-08-08 05:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd get a divorce. Once a cheater, always a cheater...the fact that he/she would sleep with someone you know is even more disgusting. I'd stay calm and leave with my dignity in tact. He/she is probably not worth the freak out anyway. Good luck...
2007-08-08 05:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen, I reacted with divorce papers and never talked to my so called best friend again.
2007-08-08 05:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by 2shay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he would have admitted it. as quickly as I accused him of it after the divorce, because of the fact he became residing with yet another woman, whom he ended up marrying, a month when I left him, he denied it. yet supply me a smash. a million month!
2016-12-15 09:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by maiale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be hurt. I probably wouldn't say anything. I would pack up my kids and my dogs and go to my parents' house and call a lawyer.
2007-08-08 05:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋