I realized that I am gay, the nervous start to be stronger.. everyday I wake up with cold feet and my I am afraid of that.. after I told my mom the reason that I never had a gf because I like guys.. she creamed she told all my family and cry and cry.. after that she takes to the psycology she told her I am gay that woman told her I was confused, but after that I said her I am not confused, she told my mom she doest believe nobody were born gay, the gays made himself maybe I made gay because the envirioment, well I live in mexico, after that I thought the anxiety will be over, then she took me with another doctor and this one doctor told me being gay is a mysteri dont know the cause, after that she took me with a psquiatra..but this one same the thing being gay is a mysteri but he told my mom he wished not have a gay son.after he give me medications but I dont feel better.. he doesnt help me in nothing to go to doctors here it's expensive and hard to find a good doctor in my small tow
2007-08-08 05:02:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
all days I have anxiety.. after my school some friends bother me with a teacher who is gay and feminine he is my teacher now in french I feel so bad.. I dont know.. I never had a bf or friends who I can trust about my sexuality.. my anxiety still there. I dont know what to do, my mom sometimes insult me thinks the porno made me gay because she catched me once watching that..
2007-08-08 05:05:17 · update #1
Hey come on, try and cheer up a bit, you really need to understand that nothing and no one made you gay, it is just how you are, your mom will get used to this in time i am sure of that, these doctors are not helping you, apart from offer you my support anytime you need it, i wish you all the luck in the world. Pete
2007-08-08 05:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by pete m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you were born gay! It's not a disease, you don't get it from being around gays and it's not an environmental thing!
Secondly, you are not alone. There are millions off us!
Now, I know this doesn't help much now but I can assure you, it will get better!
The majority of us all went through this and some way or another we managed to survive!
I suppose the Doctor has given you medication against anxiety...it takes a while before they start to work...
Try to find a chat group where you can meet other youngsters, you could find some good friends...
If you want, you can always mail me...we are here to help!
2007-08-08 12:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a straight man, I really don't have a lot of experience in this but I do know that you are a human being who has every right to feel and express himself in the manner that you see fit...Do not let others dictate who you are or how you should feel...stand by your convictions and embrace your true nature...
2007-08-08 12:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by John J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you went through all of that. You never chose to be gay, and that's evident. You are right.
This may be hard, but, I would suggest moving out, and starting your own life. I do not beleive that just because somebody is your family that they have a right to treat you as horrible as they have treated you.
You need to move out, and start your own life. You will be better for it.
2007-08-08 12:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're perfectly fine!!!! No more doctors {when it comes to being Gay at least} Good Luck sweetie...I know it is hard but you have to be true to yourself...love youself..that is all that matters!
2007-08-08 16:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need doctors. It's okay to be gay. It's NOT okay to act like your mom in this circumstance.
Enjoy your life.
2007-08-08 12:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is having some mental issues herself. She should give you support and unconditional love, not sending you to psychiatrists. You need to get stronger, because you will have to defend yourself.
2007-08-08 12:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋