we've tried all the things the book says to do, i dont understand. i'm i thinking about it to much while in the act and that is stopping it from happening. we've tried it all and i keep faking it, yet i'm tired of doing that......help
2007-08-08 04:50:52 · 7 answers · asked by lala 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, youo probably are thinking about it too much, typically a killer for women. Don't fake it, that doesn't help anyone. I would suspect that the BF is rushing through things. This is a common thing for men. You might need to tell him to linger longer at a point where it feels good. Also, men tend to reach their climax quicker, so he will need to put more time in to you during foreplay to get you closer to your orgasm before he begins, if you know what I mean.
2007-08-08 04:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. Don't fake it. Most women cannot have an orgasm through sexual intercourse alone. Having an orgasm for most women requires manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris.
2007-08-08 12:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try being on top. don't feel self conscious. just do what feels good and he'll enjoy it too. if your tense about it you won't be able to relax enough to climax. Being on top will help provide the closest contact. just rock the boat!!
2007-08-08 12:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by linds711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women have this problem, have you thought about bringing toys into the mix? I hear that works well.
2007-08-08 11:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by *Butterfly* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more clitoral stimulation during sex. I suggest a pocket vibrator.
2007-08-08 12:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're doing nothing wrong.....just keep up the oral and call yourself lucky.
2007-08-08 11:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YOU DO HAVE A PROBLEM.
You started faking it....
2007-08-08 12:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋