How to stay away from adolescene age (teenage )charms?

Question

Hey this time again ur answers wud help me to concentrate in studies. I always ask such ques so that i can get rid of all my disabilities and pursue a better and successful life.
Im easily carried away by distractions which hamper my studies.(u know dese distractions welll. like crushes , tryin to attract oders etc infact dey are unending)
Could u ppl tell me proper ways to get out of all this . so that i can concentrate more on my studies ?
id be really thankful to u!!!!

hey m a gal not a boy!!

Hey frends thanku all of ur answers are very helpful ii try to get dese in my life.
Ive penned down all of dem in my diary .
But im not goin to chose any best answer for dis question coz all answers are tremendously flawless .
Once again im really thankful to ll of u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

teenage charms wlln't affect ur studies in any manner, first of all u hav to do proper things at proper age, u go according to ur age.while studying concentrate on it and other time u happily spend with ur bf.dont waste time and enjoy it either in studies or in enjoying the colors of life. if u ignore any one this u wll certainly regret for the same in future. keep enjoy on all the way in ur life.goodlk

Answer 2

When not studying you can experience the distractions, get them out of your systems.

Now you must understand that every one has only so much attention span, for most it is 45 minute to an hour. You need to find that span by noticing your capacity.

If your span is 1 hour and 5 minutes then set an alarm for 1 hour, then start studying. Take a 5 minutes break, do some thing else say drink some water, use rest room.......

Then set another 1 hour alarm...... repeat the cycle.

Now in few days you will be ready to go for may be little more time, even 1 hour 15 minutes do that and slowly expand your attention span.

Other tips:

1. You should be rested, most people need 8 hours of sleep some can get by 4 hours, but ultimately it will catches up with you.
2. Engage in some yoga type breathing routines.
3. Other exercises can help.
4. Find good mental foods like Walnut, other nuts, eat a few, on regular bases or during break time.(listed, in books, go to library and find the info, Internet is full of it too).
5. See if you can add some more to this list.

Answer 3

The first thing to do is realize that these distractions are a normal part of being a teenager so don't be too hard on yourself.
Second, when you start to develop a crush on someone step back and take a realistic look: for example when you have a crush on say Joe it is likely you have this fantasy idea of who Joe is and what he is about---look at him realistically does he dress awful? Smell? Is he a slacker who doesn't ever pass a class? Is he a Mama's boy? ect Trust me that crush will go away real fast. Don't get involved with sexual activities! Also make it a goal to not date till you are out of high school or if you do date restrict your dates to Friday and Saturdays so that it doesn't interfere with school.
Something that will also help you is to make a list of all your goals and how to meet them and put it where you'll see it daily.
Don't just list school goals also list fitness, social, family, ect
you don't want to become so deep in academics that you lose site of the other areas of your life---you're only a teen once.
I wish you best in your studies! :)

Answer 4

It takes self-discipline which is hard enough for an adult to come by, let alone a teenager. Your world is full of distractions that can interfere with your studies. Look at it in the long term. Will those distractions be as important to you in trying to achieve your life goals as your studies will be? Your studies will prepare you for your future as an adult in making the right decisions and pursuing the career that will provide income and fulfillment in your life. Maybe you should study more at home, where you will have fewer distractions. Go into a quiet room -- no TV, radios, stereos, computers, phones, etc. Just concentrate on your studies, and devote at least an hour that's free of distraction. It takes a little practice, but eventually you'll be able to concentrate on what's really important to you. It's okay to have a social life, to interact with your peers, and to have fun. But you should also devote some time for those things that are important in your life. Good luck, dear. I know you can do it!

Answer 5

Your life is what you make of it. Happiness is in the journey not in what is at the end of the road. Focus on what it is that you really want at this moment. If it is to study then study. If it is to get carried away with a distraction, then go. Life is what it is. You will never have a " better " life if you can't see the wonder in it at this very moment. Success is in the eye of the beholder. You will only be " successful " when you make it your own. The most successful man I ever met was a farmer lost in the vastness of a forest in Mexico. He had everything. A wife, children, a two room hut, a stream for water and bathing, food to hunt and pick, and a patch of banana trees to tend.

Answer 6

hey divi .. these are faced by every teenage in this world ... everyone of us wanna attract others .dream of the crushes again n again ... try to be something wich we are not ( this happens even widout our knowledge ) .. all these are not a big mistake or something lik that . untill n unless a certain limit is crossed.. one cannot be a perfect person like a saint that too teenagers cant even imagine of being something lik that .. we cant stick books to our hands all the time n be reading always ... doin that is also a mistake .. this will limit u frm expanding ur knowledge or excel in living a perfect life . bcoz studies are not everything in life . and they are not nothin in life .. bcoz they are important .. a man widout knowledge n wid skill is not that smart to fly in life .. and a man wid all knowledge but no skill is totally useless .. bcoz all his or her knowledge will be limited widin himself or herself ... importance given for studies should be high ... but bcoz of that restricting all other things is also not good ... u need to have limit wen u are realising itz distracting a lot... al these things can be in limit by a simple method .. that is plan out ur work .. planning for ur studies wil help u a lotttt..... this may not be successfully followed for first few dayz but u will surely master urself n have control over ur self as dayz pass by.. wen u plan to study n complete a portion within this time .. try to do it at least 20 % n see the improvement u are having everytime .. plan for a whole week n wen u have to study .. u gotta study that u should realise frm widin ur self bcoz no one can force u to do the same .... this way u can restrict few things for somedayz ... n wen u know u are goin in a good pace u surely need a reward n dont forget to reward urself .. the best advice that i can give is PLAN UR THINGS .. PLAN IT WELL , FOLLOW IT WELL, AND WORK IT WELL ... " U ARE GOIN TO CHALLENGE URSELF FOR UR OWN IMPROVEMENT " THAT IS WEN U READ ONE SUB FOR ONE DAY .. NEXT CHALLENGE URSELF TO DO DOUBLE " TRY TO BREAK UR OWN RECORDS N U WILL BE PERFECT IN UR STUDIES .... n abot the distraction i have one few more things to share wid u .. wich i follow .. that is keep talkin wid urself .. wen u do something sweet praise rself . wen u do something wrong or wen u are doin something wrong scold urself .. talk wid urself .. teach ur self .. help ur self .. intracting wid urself will help u a lott nn make u go in the path wich is right .. people may think u are mad .. but that does not matter .. dont bother wat they say .. u know u have a friend deep within u... wich is always wid u .. u should be happy that u have recognised a friend widin u . a friend a true friend u can ever get in this living world ... the bestest friend to whom none of the others who make fun of u have .. this will surely help u live a succesful life ... luv u loads hope all this helps u .. bcoz all this really helped me ... n are helping me a lott.. i am so happy that i have someone here who is gonna share these ways ......... i to faced all that u are telling n i face them now too but to a lesser extent .. we all are teenagers . distracted easily .. n can surely have control over ur senses if we have the will to do so... ... all the best for ur studies dear ......... tc ... writtin in the diary is good but most important is following it ... ( u know many a times i skipy plan ,, itz all natural but at the other time i punish myself for goodnees sake by following everything perfectly more then wat i have decided there by time is used n wastage of time is compensated .........

Answer 7

It would be nice if these charms 'stay' with us, intead of us trying to 'stay away' from these charms!
We are available more and more to the 'life' around, and like an innocent child, we get attracted to everything that comes our way. It is just that the ignorance, the lack of awareness, that makes us shift our priorities too soon, or even takes us on a wrong track (the track that was not meant for our well being), etc... The child-like innocence is too difficult to retain, after becoming an adult, because that ignorance is gone, with self-awareness bringing in the 'information' about hard facts of life. This information keeps popping up all the time, even when we do not require it, as if to remind us of 'problems' , etc, and makes us feel insecure all the time!
Which is better, the long faced, grim adults, who look disciplined, just because they are 'chained' to responsibilities(accountability) and so they have no energy left in them to respond(ability to respond, or response-ability/responsibility) to 'liveliness' offered by the situation,
or
that charming innocence ever ready to look, see, perceive, behold, observe etc , without any preconditon, prejudice, with deeper levels of acceptance(meaning, without unrealistic expectations), with the gift of self-awareness, to guide us to choose our priorities, intelligence at its peak without interference of memory, allowing us to observe things as they are, affording evaluation afresh, affording precautions consciously and at will from past experience, guidance from elders etc?
Take a look at the stories we heard about ancient "Gurukul". The students, disciples, were guided by a wise master, 'live' amidst nature, the lessons getting deeply engraved from first hand experiences!
True, that if we have not evolved enough to be able to judge, the very energy, the spirit of adventure, that gift of the teenage, does seem to distract us. But, it is we, who have to choose. If we are fortunate, we might get a trustworthy guide, who will ALSO help us to retain that innocence (now, without that childhood ignorance), so that we retain the ability to be 'fresh' to life around! We see that the 'fresh' look seems to fade away with age amongst adults. We easily attribute the aging factor responsible for disappearance of that brightness on face. Not really so. We do see exceptions.
We find it difficult to concentrate on studies, because we 'concentrate'. For a change, try 'diluting' it like we do when reading an interesting story book, novel etc. We are relaxed when we read, yet we are fully involved, and with just one reading, we grasp the whole story, enough to score very high marks if we are asked to face an exam based on that novel! All that is required is to 'consciously' realise that the prescribed 'study' material is supposed to 'empower' us to handle life situation till we retire(for gainful employment), and get respected as a wise elder thereafter! This is the 'art' of learning to be mastered with sincerity, dedication, involvement. Learning the art of learning would remove that unwanted effort, strain, stress, boredom, dullness etc from the 'study' material 'thrust' upon us by the academic sylabus!
Best wishes.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

these attractions are a cause of hormonal changes which are very normal but can distract your mind .it can be prevented
-tell your friends not to encourage you in these matters as well as to stop you.
-when these thoughts take over ,try to think about your aim in your life and your parents dedication and hard work .

Answer 10

I suffered from the same thing. Get a good friend whom you can talk to at anytime and for as many hours as you want to. Trust me. It really helps