How do you know?

Question

How do you know if you've found the "one" or not, and what do you suggest would be a healthy/ good relationship at 20 years old?

Answer 1

The guy I was serious with at 19, then the guy I was serious about at 24 were nowhere NEAR like the wonderful man I married when I was 28! Wait at least til you're 25, done school, started a career, been out in the world independently paying your own way - becoming your own woman. Then you bring your best self to a husband, and choose a great one.

Answer 2

I am 23 (in 8 days) and am married. I loved him and we were great friends I realized then that love...being in love...finding the one isn't what people tend to think it is. Being in love for me is having my best friend beside me, knowing the love is unconditional and no matter what mistakes I make (with in reason of course) he may be upset but never will he not love me anymore. You have found the one when you can know in your heart, body and soul that the love that is expressed between you both is truly unconditional. You'll know! At no age is there a chart telling you what is a good relationship for that level, there isn't levels. As long as it is a healthy relationship where your safe, happy and being respected then your good. There is no age requirement.

Answer 3

A good/healthy relationship for a 20 year old would be with themselves! Why, because if you ain't right, you ain't going to fine Mr./Mrs. Right!
How do you know, with me it was that gut feeling, that warm rush, the butterflies every time I saw him. But the confirmation was when God told me "He's the one" (at the same time, unknown to me, God was telling him the same thing)!
I wish you well and hope you find what it is you are looking for :)

Answer 4

Smile. At 20 you should date a lot of different types of men ( but not at the same time ) in order to find out which one is for you. You need to observe them, listen to them and try to find out what kind of people they are. You also need to listen to your own feelings and thoughts: finding out who you are and what you want in life and relationship should be your goal at this time.

How did I know that he was the one?.. I just knew that no one else will do. He is one irreplaceable person in my life. He makes me want to be a better person. He had seen me at my very worst, and had loved me and supported me all the way. He is my equal partner in everything I do, think and feel. I'd married my very best friend in the world and I still can't keep my hands off him. I hope that was helpful in some way.

Answer 5

"The One" is a stupid concept. Its suggest that we have no choice in this life and we are fated to meet or not meet the "right" person. It gives us an out on EVERY relationship because when can then say, "Its not because I was selfish, stupid or arrogant, because they were not the one."

Loving is a continued acceptance of another complete good & bad. Its this exposure of letting someone know the real you and your knowing the real them that allows love to exist.

So stop trying to find "the one" and just try to love completely. Remember great love and great wealth require great risk.

Answer 6

i knew when i realized i was not only deeply in love but also realized we had many of the same morals and life goals and knew how to always have fun together.

Answer 7

Simply dating, you are too young for anything more and old enough for anything less.

Answer 8

Follow your heart. Your heart will tell you if it is right. If there is doubt, that is your heart speaking to you. Always follow your heart and you will know.

Answer 9

you just will know..... take your time be sure