is it wrong to begin a new relationship while your divorce isnt final..but will be in three months? should u get mad if the man that you want tells you to slow down..and wait..that maybe one day we will pursue a relationship..maybe? should i even get mad ? should i move on to someone else..who knows what he wants..in 1 year or two years? and should i stay with a maybe?
2007-08-08 03:24:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no hes is right ur moving way to quick! whether ur with him or not. see ur looking for anybody to love u the way ur husband didn't and any type of attention someone else will pay u its gonna go straight to ur head and ur gonna start thinking with ur heart wrong idea! ur gonna get burned just about every time.u need to give ur self sum time to find out who u are.u dont just jump from one relationship to another. and u will push any body away with rushing things.
2007-08-08 03:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would take it a little slower; not because the divorce isn't final yet (well okay that is one reason), but because you need to take the time to discover yourself again and find out who you are without your ex and what you reallt want and need in a relationship. Everyone wants to be loved, everyone. It is possible, but down the road. As for right now, love yourself.
2007-08-08 10:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were not able to sustain your marriage, why do you want to enter into another relationship so soon?.
Think the man knows the best way to avoid being used and dumped when another suitor appears is by keeping some distance.
Please re-examine your love life for the sake of your beloved ones.
2007-08-08 10:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kaka M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels that is it the right thing to wait until the divorce is final....people can have some REALLY strong feelings regarding that particular situation....wait, once the divorce is final, if he is still not moving in, move on...
2007-08-08 10:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bite me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you got to love yourself first of all. Once you do this, you will understand your life & what you want out of it. Nothing wrong with a new relationship but yes take it slow. You may make hem feel as if he is a "Rebound" or "Safty Net." So clear out what needs to done and things will be fine.
2007-08-08 11:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by pedebeed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to cool your heels. It is not wrong to be in a new relationship so soon, however, I think this is a rebound thing and you may be getting attatched to quick. Just date, dont go off marrying yourself before your even divorced.
2007-08-08 10:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by charm_link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you asked this same question yesterday...My same answer is that maybe he wants to wait til your divorce is final before getting serious with you. Why are you in such a rush? Can't you be happy with yourself for awhile?
2007-08-08 10:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seem a little needy, chill darlin or you will run them all off.
It is normal to be insecure during a divorce, it is not normal to let your fear run rampant to destroy any new potential relationship.
Deep breath and relax a bit, it will do you both good. Meanwhile have wild sex with the new guy to feel better.
Old Guy
2007-08-08 10:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he just wants the divorce outta the way, and some time for you to make sure hes what you want and that hes not a rebound
2007-08-08 10:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by godwhatworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself free before starting something new.
The guy sounds reasonable, hang on to him, but do as he suggests for now.
2007-08-08 10:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋