You would contact your ex-girlfriend out of the blue even though you had not had any communication with her in over six months. I am asking because I think that would be sad if you just did it for sex because you and her both should have bee with someone sexually in that length of time. So what would be the reason?
2007-08-08 03:23:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it just to see can they get you back or do they really want you back?
2007-08-08 03:34:03 · update #1
curiosity? i mean i havent actually contacted her, but sometimes i wonder what my ex wife is doing, and if she is happy with her choices and new life? i guess not enough so to pursue it in any way, but still sometimes i wonder.
2007-08-08 03:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex hurt me badly. However each year all of our mutual friends would invite us to the annual party weekend--rent a big house, everyone comes. It's usually between 20 and 30 of us and every year we hoped the other wouldn't show up. We spent the entire time we spoke trying to one up the other. Hows your relationship? So sorry to hear, mine is perfect. He treats me fabulously. This went on for YEARS until we could finally get past the hatred. So it could be calling just to make sure you are more miserable without him than he is.
However a ex that I loved and we separated b/c we weren't wanting to marry each other--about every 6 months we talk to each other b/c we just got tired of being alone. He'd have a girlfriend and it wouldn't work out and he'd realize how much worse she was than me. It would make him miss what we had. Not that it solves the problems that were in our relationship, but it was pretty damn good when you start looking at other people. He could be calling b/c he misses the good times you had together--after time usually the bad stuff fades and the good is what you reflect on.
It could just be sex. Perhaps the sex that you've had in the last 6 months just wasn't as good as the sex the two of you had together b/c of how well you knew each other.
2007-08-08 10:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say because in that amount of time(6months) you should have had other sexual relations.
What a twisted society we live in.
Ever hear of saving the greatest gift you could possibly give someone, for marriage?
Apperently not.
Try a relationship without sex. Because if it survives, you will know your marriage will and you wont be part of the stats.
2007-08-08 10:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by WWJD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just to see if they can get you back. I had an ex girlfriend do the same to me.
2007-08-08 10:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jared G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be for sex, and it could be that he realised he can't live without you. What did he say on the phone? I would need a little more info.
But, like I said, he could either be despreate for sex, can't live without you, or can't stand being single, and alone.
2007-08-08 10:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you just legitimately miss her and like her and wonder how she's doing? Nothing wrong with a bit of reminiscing.
2007-08-08 10:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by RapidCycler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I split with a girl/lady...there is no going back for me. I feel if we can't solve our problem before we hit splitville.. that is it. London Bridges has fallen down!
2007-08-08 10:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its for the sex .. move on leave him alone or yourll get hurt again.. trust me been there done that
2007-08-08 19:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mike H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To use you over and over again?
2007-08-08 10:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so they can have their cake and ice cream too
2007-08-08 10:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋