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There is my freind who is a sikh(Orthodox Family), and her girlfreind is a muslim(Sunni/Orthodox Family), they both like each other but due to different religons there faces are off. Wat they should do.......what do u think

My comment is to be a freind but not engage in marriage etc what are your views

2007-08-08 02:29:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

10 answers

Sikhs and Muslims have been enemies for centuries. This relationship will be a disaster from the start. If the family find out he will be forced to switch to Islam which will not be tolerated by his family. People have been killed before in situations like this - i kid you not. They are both playing with fire and they should break it off before blood is spilled.

2007-08-09 10:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sweet heart, I feel that your question is not posed accurately. The question should read "can a Punjabi boy marry a muslim girl?" Why do I say this? Well, Sikhism is not a religion, it is a Universalistic Philosophy, which Punjabis, like my family and the specific person you are alluding to has no knowledge of. Punjabis like to call themselves Sikhs because it pomps them up (trust me, I am a Punjabi and a so called "Sikh".

Sikhism states that the initial purpose of all religions is divine, but religion as we perceive it is a curse because it creates duality (separation) amongst us humans and all created phenomenon. Therefore, there is only ONE Almighty God for ALL no matter what school of thought one prescribes to.

The very word "Sikh" means "Learner." Every person who is breathing now, or even those who are in the womb, know that s/he is a "learner". This whole world is created for our own Sikhi (Learning process). In this process, we are to treat all life with respect, tolerance for all religions/school of thoughts, equality and justice and find sustenance in serving all humans humbly--while at the same time "Learning" (Sikh) from their religion/knowledge/experiences... etc.--yet remaining true to the same Universal goodness of the heart which is immanent within all.

How did Guru Nanak reply to people like you who ask such questions? He said, "there is no Muslim, no Hindu". Those who are pure in the heart (Khalsa) know for sure that there is no such thing as you Muslim, you Hindu, he Christian, she Jewish, you this, them that, me THIS. Guru Nanak eliminated the ego and duality in people and made them realize that we are all walking on the same floor---as Learners (Sikhs).

2007-08-09 15:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by waho_all_one 2 · 3 0

i do no longer understand sufficient approximately Sikh or Muslim faith to assert for specific, yet i think of if the two households are nice with it 2 human beings from the two distinctive faiths ought to get married. I mean who ought to truly provide up them, legally talking? human beings from the Muslim and Sikh faith ought to look down on them for it (even 'disown' them) yet i'm quite specific they could nonetheless get married. no you will get rid of your ideals or faith except you enable them to. And specific, of direction that should substitute in time, each thing does. human beings asked the comparable question approximately 2 human beings from distinctive races approximately 2 hundred? years in the past, and look how uncomplicated it incredibly is now. to reply to your different question- this happens all the time. human beings look to love protecting previous grudges even long after the two factors have forgotten what the combat replaced into approximately. i assume it incredibly is in simple terms the adverse part to human nature. in spite of the shown fact that it would not recommend that this situation between them heavily isn't resolved, it could take many, some years yet i believe it ought to take place finally.

2016-10-01 21:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well legally they both can marry by civil marriage before the Marriage officer if they fulfill the required valid conditions applicable to such inter-religious marriage. The marriage officer will see the objections arising for non fulfillment of the required conditions for such marriage & in such marriages the question of religion is never an issue so they need not bother about it. I know the question of age, mental satus, previous marital status never arise in such marriages only a non issue about their belonging to a different religion is there, and also what the parents & other relatives of both will say if they get married. All such issues are irrelevant as far as legal aspect is concerned. If they happen to be Indians & living in India they can marry under the provisions of the Special Marriage Act, 1954 the matrimonial law specially made for such inter-religious civil marriages before the Marriage officer/registrar.

2007-08-08 17:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 6 2

Sounds like its Hina??? She was boinking her neighbor, and they hooked up for a while--until they called it quits. I'm sure they are still "good friends" as he is paying her child support for their kids now. Either that, or she hooked up with him--knowing it won't work--just for financial reasons.

Case in point: it just aint gonna work. Sooner or later, the "opposition" will catch up to you.

BTW, in your question its looks confusing--who is the Sikh and who is the Muslim? It looks like you might be talking about 2 girls ("my friend who is a sikh... and her girlfriend is a muslim")

2007-08-10 05:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by rc 5 · 1 0

they have to take the decision only..such relations are not acceptable in our society..sometimes it creates political issues also..even family members are also affected..if they are self dependent and strong enough to face the situations they can go forward. Otherwise they should stop immediately their relationship..love never ends..they can keep it in their hearts forever :)

2007-08-08 02:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by George 3 · 1 1

if they love each other, there no problem they can get married

2007-08-08 04:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

as good as some other intercaste marriages

2007-08-08 03:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by dinesh k 2 · 0 1

no problem

2007-08-08 15:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by ms 3 · 1 0

hi iam mushlim boy, iam bachlor who is my life patner, please, give messeges, my e mail adrase send, thanks,

2007-08-08 19:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by mahtabansari786 1 · 1 0

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