My family members do not understands me my age is 20 yrs old girl. they dont lemme do wot ever i want to do in my life. in other words i m restricted from any kind of activity.. i m fed up of all this situation. I feel i m getting mently sick. since 2 yrs m at home not studying not doing nething specifically for my future plz help me.. and dont gimme advice to talk to my elders coz they wont do nething for me. plz plz help me
2007-08-08 02:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
kill urself or kill ur family.
2007-08-08 02:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by nymphetamine 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
at 20 years old, i think you have a few options.
have you considered college? if you want to go, then do it!
what about a job? getting your own place -- maybe with a roommate or two? it would be a start.
you don't have to talk with your immediate family of adults, but there are other people out there who could give you advice, or listen to your issues... do you have someone out there you trust and respect, and who would listen and possibly give you some advice?
i dont know anything about your situation or what is available to you in your community, but perhaps there is someone in your life who'd be able to help you figure this out.
i hope you can.. hugs
2007-08-08 09:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, good for you that you want to do something with your life!! Second, if you are living in your parents house, you probably have to live their way. Your first priority will be to obtain employment and start earning your own money so you can get out. If you don't have a car, see what places you can walk to or get public transportation to. If you don't have much for skills, go to an employment agency and see what they can offer you as far as placing you in a job. Or, look for a cleaning position, child care, store cashier or clerk... try for anything you think you can do. Money and vehicle = freedom. IF your parents won't let you work...then contact Social Services and tell them your parents want you out and you have no job or place to go, and see what they can set you up for. Good luck.
2007-08-08 09:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are usualy over protective when it comes to girls, do not worry dear i have been there too. Prove to them that you responsible,manage your finances and stop being on your knees beging for thins you could get for yourself. What they are doing shows love be proud of that,many of your peers out there are dying for that hang in there and try communicating through a phone/ writing a letter. Be patient maybe they are unaware of the fact that they are hurting you,am realy sorry
2007-08-08 09:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you stop complaining and find a way to help someone other than yourself!
If you do nothing at home what makes you think that you deserve any privileges? Grow up, get a hobby, get a job!! and act your age and then maybe things will start looking brighter.
2007-08-08 09:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by PrettyBright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a part time job and go to a university.do what you really want to do and don't ask no one about it.you're old enough to know what you want and i believe that you can survive.
forget everyone and start a new life....make your dreams come true because no one can stop you from doing it;your parents believe that they can rule your life but you must show to them that things are different!!!you can do it!!!!
best wishes,and good luck!!!
2007-08-08 09:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by D.B.O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋