We have been together for four years and we have had ups and downs been every were together she has been talking marrige of and on about the last six months I have been dening it but now are relationship is falling Im 33 not rich but i love her and her problems I fell her goodness out ways the bad parts to me, I have never been married and I have other childern from a previous relationship along with our one child we have together , should I pop the question to see if it will save the relation ship I do love her but i believe this causeing a lot of porblems in my house she says she feels like she is single.????????????????
2007-08-08 02:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
CJ fix it....... listen to what your heart is telling you to do, but don't rush into your decision.
2007-08-08 02:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by It's me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys need to sit down with out any distractions and have a serious talk about where your relationship is going. If it's already on rocky terms, I don't believe it's just because you haven't married. So, by asking her to marry you will not make it better. You have to go deeper than that and find out what the root of your problems are. Marriage does not make bad relationships better, it will only complicate things more.
2007-08-08 09:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that really is up to you. If you do ask her maybe think about some marriage counseling first. Four years is a long time to be together without a promise ring or something. If she has been bring it up then she must be ready are you?
2007-08-08 09:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time to figure out what your gonna do. If you don't want to marry her you need to let her go and be with someone who wants to marry her. Biological clocks are ticking at this age. I am usually the first to say don't let anyone push someone into marriage, but after 4 years its time to decide one way or the other.
2007-08-08 09:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her because you love her and want to spend the rest of your lives together. The only thing that will make your relationship stronger is what you and she put into it. If you love her, marry her,,,don't wait. Marriage just steps up the level of commitment and shows her you truly love her.
2007-08-08 09:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If after 4 years together and a child you still have to ask this question then do you really think your ready?
2007-08-08 09:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by JLM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok don't get married if you dont want to because if you do and you get into a fight one day i don't want you blaming this marriage idea on her.basically saying how if she wouldn't have brought it up you wouldn't have asked her to marry you.look here what i want you to do,go up stair and just set and look into her eyes.ok then i want you to picture your life with and with out her.is she the person you want to wake up next to for the rest of your life if so get down on one knee and tell her you couldn't imagine you life with anyone else.after that take her out somewhere romantic and get a babysitter for your kid so it will just your guys night.
2007-08-08 09:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by monica_hogard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feel like she is single wow geting married not going to di it
2007-08-08 09:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said this because she wants more from you, like a ring on the finger, and a date.........
2007-08-08 09:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree- a ring and a date buddy....
2007-08-08 09:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Do I need a mint? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋