is it wrong to begin a new relationship while your divorce isnt final..but will be in three months? should u get mad if the man that you want tells you to slow down..and wait..that maybe one day we will pursue a relationship..maybe? should i even get mad ? should i move on to someone else..who knows what he wants..in 1 year or two years? and should i stay with a maybe?
2007-08-08 02:10:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your divorce is pending and just waiting for the interval for final decree, it's not wrong to start a new relationship.
The whole point of dating is "maybe" - and slowing down is a pretty good factor in relationships. There is initial attraction, then hot and heavy, then a cooling off period - and after that you really start to get to know somebody. If that person is one you like, great, if not, move on. A serious relationship will go beyond the initial attraction, and cooling off, and go further. Don't get mad, just look at him as-is after that point and make a good choice. Only you can decide if he's a keeper, or just some guy you thought was cute once.
2007-08-08 02:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband at the time were having problems for years we were seperated for a year I started dating my x-boyfriend before the divorce was finalized and we got engaged got married 2 months after my divorcce was finalized. I really don't know your situation but did you have time to be by yourself and get to know what you want and find out who you are without a guy.
2007-08-08 09:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Any man worth having will show his cards to you right from the jump. I never beat around the bush when it came to showing my interests. What's to figure out? Don't allow anyone to complicate a relationship anymore than it already is. I came, I saw, I likey.
2007-08-08 09:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is guarding his heart. Why are you getting mad? He knows you are going through a divorce and wants to make sure you are not jumping from one relationship to another. He is trying to do right by you.
2007-08-08 09:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to slow down. Let one thing end, let it heal before you move on to the next person. Good Luck to you
2007-08-08 09:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by bluebird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, this just amazes me how people can do this so fast, get one problem out of the way before you begin on another adventure.
2007-08-08 09:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A desperate woman is a turn off,to any man and your acting desperate. slow down a little
2007-08-08 09:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by gordie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer that, but my guess is, if you are here asking complete strangers about your personal decisions...it isn't good.
2007-08-08 09:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drop the maybe, enjoy your freedom, someone will find you!
2007-08-08 09:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by beachy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋