we had a fight . i said something stupid. she gave me silent treatment inthe car.then when i got home i called she answered we talked.. general stuff tho.she had another call so she had to go.. her mom. i tried to call later she wouldnt answered. yesterday she didnt texted me nor call me.. is she waiting for me to call her? should i wait til she calls... that night i did apogolze 5x.does she need to cool down?
2007-08-08 02:00:03 · 12 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why would i apologize again if i did 5x that night.... it is up to her to accept it..right?
2007-08-08 02:06:25 · update #1
is she trying to prove that she is stubborn and wont call me?
2007-08-08 02:15:08 · update #2
why keep apogizing?i told her thati was sorry 5x.. she wants me to beg for her forgiveness?...i put the ball back in her court to accept it. i said sumthing stupid ..yes i will admit that...i dont like any silent treatment..open communication is the key.if she is mad, then she is mad... i can say that im sorry til im blue... she will get over it when she gets over it..
2007-08-08 02:23:02 · update #3
No, you should definitly call her, she wants you to call her, talk to her, and help her cool down and she wants you, not her, she wants you to make this all better. She wants you to call, of course she'll never, well no girl will ever admit that, but she wants you to call, you should def call her, and startup a slow convo and kinda move in and try to fix this whole problem and help her get better...
2007-08-08 02:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by allen23bball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call her unless you are trying to loose her. When you say you didn't apologize it give me the picture that you are wrong but with relationship some things like this happen what is there to do is to talk and try solve our differences. Being wrong or not wrong if you love your partner just call them and talk no matter how manner time in a day and however resistant they might prove. Being persuasive to make sure that you solve the mess shows a lot of love and concern and also that you care and still need the relationship. Call her and talk. Your differences will be resolved
2007-08-08 02:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by dviakal78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give it any days, call her asap, if you really like/love her continue to give her as much attention that she needs. Continue to reasure her that it was stupid and you didnt mean it and it wont happen (dont let it happen again). The silent treatment is something us girls do to stress the point that we think you are wrong and she is trying to teach you a lesson. So jus keep the appologizing going lol, she will prolly end up coming around today.. it usually doesnt take us that long to get over something.
2007-08-08 02:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Emily May 11/10/08 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, call her. Let her know you are not going to give up that easily. Don't use the word "but" though. For instance, don't say. " I love your hair BUT you could wash it more." It takes away from the original intent. So, whatever you said, just say you messed up and you love her.
I think when you told her you were sorry the first 5x, she was still mad. I know you are probably ready to tell her off for being so hard to communicate with but if you want her, its worth one more try now that shes had time to chill a little.
2007-08-08 02:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u two made up on the phone last night, then maybe she just hasnt gotten around to calling u.
however if not you should definantly call her asap and apologize 5 more times. but if she sounds like she doesnt want to be bother then give her some cool down time.
2007-08-08 02:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her cool down you no how girls can be wait about a day or two if nothing then call her back with girls you have to let them cooldown if u have any chance of apologizing to them so wait a couple days if she dosent call back then call her back and apologize like u have never before hope this helps
2007-08-08 02:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by chaostrixs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good chance that you blew it, move on and lay off the phone, call once a week, leave a message, and keep on keeping on.
2007-08-08 02:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her and tell her again how sorry you are and that you want to take her out somewhere , where ever she wants to go. Good Luck!
2007-08-08 02:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her a few days then call and apologize!
women hold grudges .. it might take a while to get over things!
2007-08-08 02:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Cole Marie' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and leave the message that you are again sorry (and say why) and tell her that you will wait for her to call you.
2007-08-08 02:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by heypumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋