Confused about a friend? Please help?

Question

Okay i have a big long story but imnot going to go on about...
Basically i have this best friend..well i think i do....and she recently moved so we havnt been talking like everyday like we used to....and she says that im like her bestest friend and im above # 1 but like on myspace and facebook im #2 er #3 does that mean soemthing? and i can see wen i look at other pps profiles to commentthat she mite have left something telling them everything thats happening and she hasnt done that with me..does that me something?

i just want to know wut u guys think about our friendship ... i dont want it to be over but i want her to want to be friends too!

thanks!

Answer 1

hi hon.

it seems that people "rate themselves" according to how they think OTHERS feel about them, and not because they take pride in themselves....

i'm sure your friend values the friendship... when we are young, we usually have several friends... which is OK..

when a friend moves away, they have it a little rough, because they don't know anyone at first... so perhaps your friend is looking for new friends where she is now.

please don't let it bother you about her myspace and facebook.... value yourself, and others will notice you have self-confidence and gravitate toward you.

take care!! and keep in touch with your friend.

hugs

Answer 2

As you are growing up, priorities, likes and dislikes change and althogh this girl still wants you as a friend she prob doesnt feel as strongly about you as she used to do. Maybe she doesnt tell u everything on my space or whereve as she tells u on the phone?

The thing is you have to try not be urt over it, make yourself new friends in your area and remember just because you are not as close as you used to be doesn't mean you can't be pals still.

The other thing could be that she was the one who moved away and may be feeling insecure over that, and shemay feel like you will soon have a new best friend so might be trying to do the same herself.

Best thing to do is talk to her about it, tell her you miss the closeness you 2 used to have and see what she says.