My Bro in Law is a real loser,too many details to list here,but to sum it up,he is a leach & a pain in the azz,not to mention a beeraholic...My ol' man doesn't want to kick him out due to their Father getting mad at him for it,what can I do to drive him away?Something subtle,yet effective..=)
thanx~
2007-08-08 00:27:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
lol..thanx for all the ideas guys,but no,I do not want to even try to sleep with the dude,hes nasty hygenically,
plus I do not cook for him,I've labeled our food in the 'fridge,given him a shelf in it for his beer or whatever....no kids here but his own 2 twin daughters on the weekends,
who mainly run & get him beers when he wants them to,& his Dad had him living with them for 3 years,bought him his own place in fact,but now he stopped payinghis bills,due to job hopping,..he does have a sister I could pawn him off on,but how?=)
2007-08-08 01:08:51 · update #1
Well, if your old man doesn't want to go along as in supporting you then there isn't much you'll be able to do. BUT, you can try NOT doing anything for him. Don't cook any meals for him, ignore him, don't do any of his laundry, Make him do some chores around the house, BUT if he is truly an alcoholic, there isn't much you can do. He won't do anything that I have listed. He will not help himself as long as there are people who will NOT help him. By not taking a stand with him you are only enabling him.
2007-08-08 00:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he pays any rent you may have to give him 30 days notice. If he is just mooching off you give him 2 weeks to get out...Tell your husband it's either you or the brother and be firm and stick to your ultimatum. If he chooses his brother than you will know how your husband feels about you. If it were me I would be gone!
Good Luck To You....
Just an after thought:
If you have children you most defiantly DO NOT want to expose your children to that kind of behavior.
Edit:
Now that I know you do not have children but he does I would put my foot down and tell him no more visits with the twins in your home because you do not like his lack of parenting skills. Sounds like unless he cleans up his act he should not have any contact with these kids. It's neglect and abuse the way he treats them. Remember! It is YOUR HOME!
Again: Good Luck...
and I hope you come to the right decisions for you and these twins.
2007-08-08 07:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ShadySadie♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If dear old dad wants his errant son to have somewhere to live, then send the loser to HIS house.
Just make sure he knows he has to pay for his share of expenses. Give him a shelf on the fridge and let him know he can put the food he buys there, and if he's not working, leave him a nice, long list of chores to do while you are not home.
No one gets a free ride.
2007-08-08 07:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by NinaFromNewEngland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you watch ,you me and drupree, that's a funny movie but in real life things are no that funny i relate with your story what i suggest is to talk to your sister i believe is the want who's married with him and tell her that you are worry about your ol' man health cause he looks really stress and well is due to the "in law" or another thing you can do is well....... get a BB gun or a paint ball gun and help him get out!!!!
2007-08-08 07:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by denise m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put reminder notes up everywhere. over the trash:please empty trash when it gets full, over the toilet:dont forget to flush, on the fridge:don't drink the juice it belongs to me, on the t.v: no pay-per view, over the light swtich:please turn the light off when u leave a room, on the phone:no long distance calls. he'll get so fed up he'll leave
2007-08-08 07:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
run around the house half dressed dont cater to him hide his beer or take it out of the fridge and shake the cans, tell him he is leaving or you are , really he should be more about you being mad then his father tell his father to keep him,good luck,
2007-08-08 07:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by freeflow 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
rig a poker game, play with some dim bulbs and fix it so that whoever loses has to take him home...
seriously, though, I don't know. never had to get rid of anyone like that.
Sorry!
2007-08-08 07:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by pir8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shun him, in the Amish sense. Pretend he does not exist, but do not threaten him or cause bodily harm.
2007-08-09 02:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start flirting with him in front of the ol' man
2007-08-08 07:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask him to go get the mail and slam and lock the door behind him - he can reside in the shed if he refuses to leave.
2007-08-08 07:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by waddlin' along 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋