he ses i shouldnt coz it will get to be an inconvenience....but i dont think it will
2007-08-08 00:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Firstly its your choice not his to go on the pill. Secondly, you've got to take it, so its an incon to you not him, if its going to be one at all.
Tell him, if u dont go on the pill, no more sex. that should persuade him. You shouldnt have secrets and lies in a rel tho, cos they are built on trust. x
2007-08-08 00:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
How would it be an inconvenience? I don't get his excuse. Condoms would be an inconvenience, pills are NOT.
Find out why he thinks its an inconvenience and let him know that, since it is YOUR body, you will be going on the pill. Do not be deceitful.
You should go on SOME form of birth control if you plan on having sex with him in the future.
2007-08-08 08:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy who doesnt mind using condoms! well thats something we should see more of on here. my bf is exactly the same but he still supports me taking the pill.
he probably thinks that it will be an inconvenience because of the hormones lol just tell him what you want to do and discuss it at length to see what you both want.
if he doesnt see it from your view all you gotta remember is that its your body at the end of the day so it's up to you.
is it that he doesnt trust you to take it? or that someone has tried totrap him before because this may be making him a little nervous. talk to him and explain that you wouldnt do this to him and when the time is right in the future you will both talk about having children if thats what you both want.
2007-08-08 07:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm on the pill, and its easier, because as long as you remember to take it, condoms arent all that necessary, and it feels more enjoyable for both parties to have sex without latex in the way.
And you feel closer to each other, and it saves you money on condoms :p
You should explain to him that you think this is whats best for you and for him.
I mean, in the end, its your body, so do what you want with it, but you shouldnt keep things like that from your boyfriend.
2007-08-08 07:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How serious are you and your bf. If you get pregnant, will he marry you? Can he support you and your baby? Does he have a good education & job? Or are going to be depended on your parents or the government to help support you and your baby. Don’t be dumb, go on the pill.
2007-08-08 08:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by mklwis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello
If your relationship is dishonest - it doesn't matter what you do - it just wont work - talk about it and be honest and open - good luck á¦á¦á¦
2007-08-08 07:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by MissyOz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it!!! Good lord girl, take it.
If nothing else, to protect you from getting knocked up.
2007-08-08 07:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by lodleader 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
compared to using condoms?
2007-08-08 07:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by sadie_oyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT TAKING A BCP IS ALWAYS AN ADVANAGE...SO YEAH I THINK TAKE IT
2007-08-08 07:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by abby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u better be on pills...........otherwise u will get pregnant......embarassing????????
2007-08-08 08:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by COOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋