should u wait until u propose to someone?
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2007-08-07 23:13:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If its right its right. My husband proposed to me after 12weeks and we were married after six months. we will shortly be celebrating our 3rd wedding anniversary and we are so in love. My gran and grandad were married after 11 weeks and have been married for 47 years. And my parents were marreid after four months and they are still together.
Wouldnt you rather be divorced at 30 than never be married at all.
2007-08-07 23:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by angelgabby84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you're fairly certain you'll get the answer you want. I proposed to my husband when our son was 3 - I didn't want to be an unmarried mother at 30!5 years married.
My brother proposed to his wife after 6 weeks and they were married withing a year and divorced within 3. He proposed to his second wife also after abut 6 weeks and they've been married for 15 years now - go figure!
2007-08-11 17:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by JANE W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband proposed after we had been dating a year. We married 6 months later. My oldest daughter got her proposal on their 1 year anniversary. They got married 1 year later to the day. It was about the same with my sister and both brothers. None of the above lived together. I think that moving in with your boyfriend removes all incentive for him to marry you. Best of luck.
2007-08-08 06:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years
2007-08-10 23:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Drunvalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage proposal has NO time limits. It may take a long time to decide if that special someone is actually worth marrying. Both people must exhibit maturity, honesty, respect, integrity, dignity, tolerance, self confidence, support, long term goals and plans, intelligence,COMMUNICATION skills ---------marriage is a LIFETIME committment--that means the relationship gets stronger and grows everyday--there is NO finishing line. Finding a marriage partner takes work hopefully will last forever. Good luck.
2007-08-08 06:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends how in love you are i guess. I would say to propose about a year and a half after you have lived together. If you do propose - good luck!
xx
2007-08-08 06:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I dated for 3years, and only then got engaged.
Then we saved and waited for another 3years and then got married.
This week (Mon 6th Aug) was celebrated our wedding anniversary of 13yrs, and of being together as a couple for 19yrs.
I would stick my neck out and say that the couples who get married quickly do not really know each other, and its only once its too late realise that they have nothing in common (except maybe a child), hence the massive divorce rate.
I would recommend taking it slow and be sure. It worked for me.
Either way, I wish you luck! x
2007-08-08 10:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by gerryish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you know that the person is the one that does not want to live without you and you do not want to live without them.
No set times will do here. It could be two hours or it may be 50 years.
2007-08-08 06:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by elvisflowsfromall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until it feels right...i mean make sure you really know the person. i would give it 6 months to 2 years just to be sure a safe you know the man you wanna marry! i mean some people live happily getting married after 2 months and less but just to be safe give it at least a year!
2007-08-08 06:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by RoxyDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend asked me after 2months needless to say we are no longer together..I would wait a year and then ask.You really got to know a person before hand.Get a place together and see if u can get on.
2007-08-08 07:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by d_angel1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋