my husband not interested in foreplay.And even he do not enjoy this.I made him leanr the process but he is not at all interested in that.Although he loves me so much but doesnt understatd the womens need.tell me the movies name i can tell him to watch or any reading stuff on the inertnet.
2007-08-07 22:33:23 · 20 answers · asked by radhika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-08-07 23:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by shaktimaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking the wrong approach. Become unresponsive in sex and if he asks, tell him the sex was lousy. This will hurt his ego and he will demand to know why you don't think he is dynamite in bed. That is when you explain to him that there is more to making love than getting in, doing his thing and getting out in a jiffy.
A movie or a book isn't going to be of any help. What's the point if a man gets more aroused watching a movie than while making love to his wife? If communication and passion are a problem, you need to fix that first. The act of making love isn't driven by a manual - it is driven by responding to your partner's needs, asking questions and seeking confirmation that you are...ahem...doing it right.
2007-08-08 09:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by theprodigalrebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What movies or reading material will do when you, his sweet and loving wife feel exhausted in getting him realize the need of foreplay. Try to remain with him more time than you are doing now. Sometimes forced 'act' surpasses foreplay but not always.
2007-08-08 05:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Radhika ji, first of all I want to tell u that its the women who have the power to make a man seductive & its also a women who have the more controling power than mens . If u want to make ur husband interested in foreplay than u have to take control of urself. U have to use ur hands on his body but in a very lightful manner . Dont make him despirate to make it early. U have to make urself strong & if he want to do it early dont argue with him , just make ur actions of foreplay & start talking abt some mild topics to divert his mind to do it early. Try to understand him abt women needs but in a good manner. SOME XX MOVIES WILL HELP U. NOT XXX. BEST OF LUCK FOR UR INTIMACY. TAKE CARE . BYE
2007-08-08 09:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by screw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find out what turns him on. Sometimes to get what you want you have to initiate the foreplay. Maybe you can visit a play shop a store where they specialize in setting the mood. You will be surprised at what he may like.
2007-08-08 06:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by cjs23navy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your hushand is 'Wham wham thank you maam' type. You should take lead and indulge in foreplay yourself with him. Best time is when he is fast asleep. He will definitely enjoy it. Give him some really good oral sex.
Occasionally, rub your boobs with his body innocently and touch his penis, a-s-s when he is around you pretending to be unintentionally.
Try to know his fantasies and implement it.
Watch soft p-o-r-n movies (hardcore p-o-r-n is big no). Read lot of p-o-r-n stories together and let horses of his imagination run. While reading and watching p-o-r-n caress and fondle all over his body and occasionally touch his penis, a-s-s hole. In this way, you can teach your husband enjoy body.
2007-08-08 08:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jumping Sun 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him OFF. and when he complains tell him that is what it has been like for you. Foreplay is very important in a healthy sexual relationship. Maybe he is scared he wont do it right or something. Talk to him
2007-08-09 14:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by candice t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he isnt doing that with you because he doing it with someone other then you but if he dont want to with you,then dont do it with him,stand your ground dont let a man think hes better then you because he isn't
you are no better then he and no lower then he as well.you dont need toys if you have a man. thats the way it should be.(unless used for extra play with each other)and if dont want to talk about it or act as if he dont care.then
you tell him if dont take care of my needs as i do for you in and out of the bedroom then some one will.
2007-08-08 05:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he loves you like you love him, then it should be important for him to make sure that sex is enjoyable for you.
Get this book for him:
http://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Ian-Kerner/dp/0285637223/ref=pd_bbs_6/102-9553578-4461727?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1186567354&sr=8-6
it is written by a man and is a guide for men on how to please their wives.
you could make him more encouraged to read it if you also got a book on pleasing men... maybe something like this:
http://www.amazon.com/What-Men-Really-Want-Bed/dp/1592332056/ref=sr_1_2/102-9553578-4461727?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1186567536&sr=1-2
show him both books and tell him that you want for him to read the first one while you will read the other so that you both can bring something new to your intimacy. Tell him you want for the both of you to enjoy each others' bodies and become more adventurous.
2007-08-08 06:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mail me ur id i will give u whole lot of list and also some interesting stuff of reading and pictures by that ur hubby will sure do the foreplay...my id is varun_learns_2_rock@yahoo.com
2007-08-08 05:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your husband needs some medical treatment, he should go to the doctor and obey the rules.
2007-08-08 05:45:14 · answer #11 · answered by abanti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋