2007-08-07 22:29:47 · 22 answers · asked by juniormum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u don't trust him then why are u still together...was this cheating a one time thing or was it long term....and how did u find out? if he told you himself then it is likely that he was at least repentant and realised what he was doing was wrong and thought u deserved the respect of being told. if u found out through other sources then it is proabably likely that he is still playing....other than that do some sneaky work! check credit card receipts etc...
2007-08-07 22:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by kiki b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont know, n u never will , this is gonna sound harsh but u need to leave him , if he has begged u to stay n how sorry he is n how it was a 1 off n he will never do it again.... dont believe him! i know how u feel, u question him in ur head all the time , thinkin he is with her all the time, i kno exactly how u feel. n if u have kids with him . then even more of a reason to leave him... ppl always say oh u should stay together for the sake of the kids, but infact a loveless n trustless relationship is worse for the kids . i left my husband 2 mnths ago n it was the most difficult decition ive ever made n... its easier said than done for sure! although since then... ive never been happier...babes.... some men are jus not worth the bother, heartache, n stress. i wish u gooduck. :) all the best :)
2007-08-11 18:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by miss sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know why you just don't get rid of him--he cheated on you once,that should be enough to tell you he is untrustworthy in itself. If you tolerate this behaviour from him ONCE, then he will know that he can get away with it again. You are beating yourself up about this and you should not have to--you must adopt a zero tolerance towards cheating...otherwise he will quite happily walk all over you deary,as cheating scumbags often do. Don't accept it--get out of that marriage--and show him..AND yourself, that you are not a pushover.
2007-08-11 03:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 4 months ago the trust went form your marriage so now your on a slippery sloap surviving on love alone,you dont trust him otherwise you wouldnt ask this question,your always going to be wondering what is he doing where is he going.im sorry the marriage is as good as over ,trust has gone thats like living without a heart cant be done.you may stretch that 20 yrs but no trust is hard
2007-08-09 04:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do it to your self, you will never get this out of your mind ever. Once the Trust has gone you will never get it back.
You need to go and stand in front of the mirror and look hard am sure you have not got mug on your four head.
do you want to spend the rest of your life worrying what he is up to, who is he with, is he playing away with her or who ever comes his way.
You don't need a man to be happy, life's what you make it why spend it worrying about a man go have some fun.
2007-08-08 05:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the course-mate. Anyways, how do you know that he cheated on you?
2007-08-08 05:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she still on the course with him? I would point out to your husband that if you so much as get an incline that this is still going on that he will get no second chances, he is out on his ear, and you will divorce him making sure you take everything he has got with you, not forgetting his pension.
2007-08-08 05:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when someone strays means problems in relationship or that person has problems with being faithful in committed relationship so if there is problems in your relationship work on them and things should resolve themselves but will only work if you can truly forgive [even though you will never forget] and trust him again if problem with him he probably still is or will do it again unless he gets counselling to resolve his own issues you know him better than anyone else so you know the answer in your heart
2007-08-08 07:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by jacqueline8269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read his email, his phone, and above all, his Bank Statements! If you don't know his passwords, there is soft-where you can install to get them. It may be shady, but he cheated, so he no longer has any right to privacy. Good luck!
2007-08-08 05:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Junior Mum,
You know he's still cheating with her, don't you? A woman's intuition? Tell me I'm wrong.
Anyway, he's prepared to cheat on you. What more do you need to know?
2007-08-08 21:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Fanshawe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋