Females ONLY! Please give me some advice?

Question

im 12 years old and im supposely going through puberty (is what my 16 year old sister tells me) and i currently have a 13 year old boyfriend but dont worry we arent doing anything to early for my age just hugs and cuddles. but yeah anyways, just last week was was cupcaking, and i was sitting on his lap and we was looking at the sunset, and he was giving me soft kisses on my right cheek, and whispered in my ear your beautiful. which i really really really love! he makes me feel special and good and everything. but he starts giving me light kisses down the right side behind my right ear on my neck, and oh my goshh it felt awkward but for some reason i really liked it, matter of fact i think i was turned on. can anybody please tell me why? i asked my sister and she says its ONE of those sensitive places on my body. and i thought she was just playing but i have a feeling she was for real! are there any other sensitive spots on my body that i should know of?

Answer 1

You are exploring your sexuality, and your hormones are raging, and you are crazy. You're playing with fire, young lady.... and you're gonna get burned!

You should'nt have a boyfriend yet, you are way too young. Talk to your mom and tell her what is going on, if you are open with her she will be the best one to give you advice.

This boy is headed for trouble if left alone with you, and you should be smart enough to stop him from touching you.

Focus on school, look forward to growing up and heading for high school. You have a few years to grow up and don't ruin it by getting in trouble with pregnancies or infections.

Wait till you are at least your sister's age to have a boyfriend, okay Mama? Be careful.

Answer 2

You are trying to hard, keep it simple. Give her a call and ask her if she is free over the weekend, dont assume she will be. Then ask her if she fancies going for a meal or a drink. If no then dont worry, she may have already made plans. Just say we'll do it another day then. If she says yes then bonus. Go for your meal/drink and just chat... likes/dislikes/music/movies. Keep it casual, no pressures. If the topic turns more personal then tell her that you are insecure but you are slowly working through your issues and trying to make a fresh start. Thats the main problem with lads...they never express their feelings and us girls aint mind readers. Dont profess your undying love to her as she might be insecure herself, feeling rejected and hurt from when you split before. Anyway if everythin goes ok ask her if you can ring her next week and let her decide what day you should call. It'll take some of the pressure off you as to when and how often you should call. Good luck :P

Answer 3

First, your 12, to young for sex & the implications of the feeling that go with it as in true love. Your feeling are going to explode, you will find sensitive spots you never knew you had. The normal spots are breasts & genital area. We each have our own "special" spots that might be just us. You will find them in time. Do not get carried away at your age, take it easy, enjoy being young because as you get older, your not going back again. Yes we all remember those feelings, the butterflies in our stomachs, the sweaty palms, the throbbing heartbeat, you feel you are the most special person in the world. Just enjoy those feelings for a few years until you can handle adult emotions.

Answer 4

For each person it is different. While I like having my neck kissed, I absolutely loose it when my boyfriend and I hold hands, and he starts to rub small circles on the back of my hand. I also have a sensative, or "sweet" spot where my neck meets my shoulder. This is totally normal, and for each person, it can be a different spot. Enjoy finding out what your spots are...while you are still very young, don't go too far. But enjoy the discovery of what your spots will be.

Answer 5

Yes there are plenty of other places, but you should wait, you are very young and soon you would be having sex and that can lead to all sorts of consequences you DEFINITELY are not ready for...just hang in there and you will know when its time to do stuff like that but, for now deal with school and friends, that can be hard enough as it is.

Answer 6

Yes, she's right, it is a sensitive spot. However, I won't tell you any others because I think you are too young to be doing this. Please, really, you need to develop other interests. If you start this now, you'll be having sex in six months, and you're way too young for that. Please concentrate on school and making friends, making-out can wait.

Answer 7

awww... your soo cute! wish i was young again! there are plenty of zones on your body that you will discover probably by accident when your older. other people have already told you some but i dont think you should try these new ones until you are ready as you may find yourself slipping into something your not quite ready for.

Answer 8

*grins* aww, young love! so cute! ^^ i envy you...when i was 12 i had stupid bfs...but yes, those places are called erogenous zones. you can do a web search to find out more info about what and why etc. erogenous places include; mouth, ears, genital areas, armpits (eww, yeah? XP), neck, hair, face, inner thigh, buttocks, fingers toes and soles. remember...if it gets too akward or he does stuff you dont want him to do...smack him very hard, run away, and never talk to him again. rape/sexual assault is evil.

be safe, have fun, congrats on the cute sounding relationship ^^ best wishes

Answer 9

Unless you want to be a mother by the time you are 14 get off your boyfriends lap . you are NOT READY . Once you get him going he may not stop when you say .

Answer 10

wow im almost 16 and the last bf I had we didnt even hold hands. You make me feel small. BUT GO FOR IT! I mean dont go off and have sex or anything but shoot he could be a keeper!