i don't know what to do?

Question

i'm pregnant..six months..but my parents don't know anything...i know they would kill me if they found out...i'm in a school play which requires a fat girl (that would be me) so i "practice" my part with a pillow ...when my parents ask me about my weight i tell them that i have the pillow on just to get into my "fat girl" part.......i'm planning on running away i don't know what to do.....and my pillow is getting old...and i don't have any money to buy anotherone.....i dont know what im going to do! help me please

i'm 15 thnx for being so supportive.....i won't run away =)

Answer 1

don't worry my pregnant little friend why don't you put a Tampax on your pvt part and then the baby will never come out, but i cant understand the pillow thing, if you are pregnant why do you need a pillow???

Answer 2

I was 16 yr old mom, and i thought my parents were going to kill me too. The amazing thing was, my son (now 11) was the greatest thing that ever happened to me and the relationship i have with my parents. As a mom now of two children and a full time foster parent (of a 15 year old girl with a baby), you would be amazed at how much your parents will accept you and forgive you. We were once 15... the worst thing you could do is run or hide it any longer. The longer your parents have to get used to the idea, the better the outcome.
Good luck and God bless... ur in my prayers!

Answer 3

well i don't really believe you but if this is true you need to tel your parents right away. I don't know how old you are but your parents will get over the fact that you are pregnant eventually and help you do what you need to make sure your baby is healthy. you should of told them a long time ago. How do you know you are six months along? I hope for your baby's sake you have been going to a clinic or something for prenatal care. And running away would probably be the dumbest thing you could do right now. Think of the well being of your baby.

Answer 4

What is your age dear one? Please don't run away, you have no money remember !! And that baby inside you needs you !!! So running away will not solve things !! I was in your shoes at 17 !!! I talked to someone I trusted , it was my sister=in=law !! I thought my dad would kill me !!! So i was like you afraid to tell my parents too !!! talking with her helped me, you need to find an adult you think you can trust, they can help you really!!! There is also help out there for girls who don't have anyone to go to !!! Please make the right choices !!! I kept my baby , I loved her right away, even when there was people out there telling me to abort my baby, i did not listen !! And i was afraid my dad would make me give it away, but you know what, he didn't !! I was so glad when i turned 18 just incase someone would try to take my baby from me !! I end up having 3 daughters and i lost one when she was only 16!! I couldn't have anymore kids and I always wanted another one after i lost her( tubes tied), not to replace her but to feel the empty space !!! And when others come to me about getting there tubes tied I always advice them not to, because you never know when you might loose a child and can't have anymore !! And it cost way to much to have your tubes untied and lots of time it doesn't work anyhow!!! and besides i was told i could only have 3 babys cause of c-sections! so any way i hope things will get better soon, i know it will but give your self some time with this and try talking to someone real soon !!! trust me it will be fine!!! good luck sweetie!! email me if you need to talk, and my baby i told you about is 28 now !!! My first baby that is !!

Answer 5

The shortest distance between two points is a straight line.

The only intelligent thing to do is face your situation rather than go around in circles making up stories.

Sooner or later, you will have to face the music, so why prolong the agony? You have to do something now. This isn't something that you could hide forever.

If you have a good relationship with your parents, you'll have to trust them with your problem. Sure they'll be shocked and pissed, but hey, who wouldn't? At least you'll get that phase of your problem out od the way.

If you doubt this, go find a priest or professional to help you with advise.

Answer 6

Running away would be the worst thing that you could ever do. You should just tell your parents because they are going to be more supportive than what you think they will be. Are you going to the doctor now? The sooner that you tell them, the safer for you and the baby. Good luck.

Answer 7

Running away is the wrong thing to do you really should tell your parents who knows they may understand they may not and if they don't understand at least they will be there to help you make some decisions that are going to be hard for you to make on your own.

Answer 8

I know exactley how you feel.
I didnt tell anyone (not even my friends) that i was pregnant.
I finally told my mom and by then i was already almost 8months.
I thought the same thing, that my parents would kill me and that i was the biggest dissapointment ever.
but they were very very helpful. they didnt yell or make me feel bad about it at all,
they let me know that i wasnt alone and that made everything seem like it was going to be ok.
They let me know that i had options, like adoption.
i decided to keep my baby and everything is great.
things will be ok, but you need to tell them.
I went through 8months of being pregnant alone and it was the worst expirence ever.
Just tell them and things will work out = )

if you want to talk about it message me on yahoo = )
hollisteripps911

Answer 9

come to your parents in tears with the sonograms. They will completely crack and end up hugging you and consoling you. Just try and remain calm. This is what I did. My parents ended up being pretty supportive. Of course, I got a job but I still live with my parents and occassionally my mom will babysit my rowdy little two year old. My daugther's name is Miracle. Because she is a miracle. I love and adore her everyday!

Have fun with your pregnancy! It's really great being a mommy.=]

Answer 10

i feel for you hun i was 15 when i found out i was pregnat with my daughter i had her when i was 16 i did tell my parents i thought they would kill me i was scared to death you have to talk to someone don't run away not only do you have to take care of yourself you have to take care of that unborn baby please tell your mom if you need to talk email me