2007-08-07 16:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by chris o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
however long you want to wait...you never know...mizz right might come into your life tomorrow and if you wait how will you ever know!!!
2007-08-07 16:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by MiZz SaAk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people I've every heard speak about this say one year. But I see a problem in your question as you want to start "... searching for a new partner". While you should be amenable to establishing a new relationship, it is a mistake to try and schedule this or make it a goal which is what you seem to be planning. It may take several years before you meet someone who really interests you. Rather than make this part of your "to do" list, just socialize and let it happen. If you force it, you may be setting yourself up for another divorce.
2007-08-07 23:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no set time period for getting back in the dating game. Personally, I think when you are officially divorced and everything is done, then you can enter the dating pool without worry. If you are just in the first stages of divorce, I would advise you to wait just so you can have some time to yourself and reflect on what went wrong in your marriage before jumping in with someone new. Then you won't make the same mistake twice!
2007-08-07 23:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Violation Notice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that depends on you when you feel that your ready to move on. You need to allow yourself time to heal from your divorce and make sure that your past your last relationship b/c if you start dating someone else they're not going to want to hear about your ex all the time. Cause when your not over them all you want to do is talk about them cause they are the only thing that is on your mind and your going to want to talk about memories b/c you miss them. So when you feel that you are healed and ready to move on then that's when you should do it. And only you will know when that time is. Don't move on to help yourself get over that person b/c you'll just end up hurting worse.
2007-08-08 00:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to grieve for the loss of your marriage. Just like in a death (this is the death of your marriage), you need time to adjust. If you go out and date now, you'll find yourself in a "rebound relationship" and that's not healthy. Wait a few months (even a year), until you are stable again.
2007-08-07 23:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea it just really depends on when you are ready. Now, word to the wise would be give yourself enough time to rejuvenate and heal from the previous marriage. you don't want to take baggage into a relationship because it will fail to. Make sure you are truly ready and able to give that person just as much as you will receive. Good luck!
2007-08-07 23:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by b n real 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny question....ABout 2 weeks after I left my husband, I met up with my high school first love from 14 years past, just by chance. We have began dating again and have fallen back in love. Point is, that perhaps love will find you when you least expect it!
2007-08-08 00:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by melissakumai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait a bit dont rush it. cause than you will be making a mess of things. first you will like the person than after a while you relize that its to fast and you get scared off. i would wait a couple months to settle in at least! dont worry cause you will find someone
2007-08-07 23:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the day after you are divorced you are free to do as you wish.
2007-08-08 00:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the time is right. go too fast and you may settle for something that you wouldn't before just because your lonely.
2007-08-07 23:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋