I'm so confused right now. About 6 months ago I moved in with my best friend of 8 years. She's like my sister and I love her so much but she is in some serious trouble. She is completely irresponsible with her money. The first four months went ok, better then ok really.
In June she didn't pay the electric. I thought no big deal, we all make mistakes. She can pick it up on this one. (I found out when we got the bill in July). Then in the middle of June, her car was repossessed. She still won't tell me the whole truth and I only know how much she owes cause her mom told me. Now I got a notice today that our electric is going to be turned off if the two past due bills aren't paid by the 17th of this month.
What pisses me off most is she just won't talk to me about it. I try and she completely ignores me. I don't know what to do anymore. I need some advice. What are some ways I could try and get her to talk to me? Am I overreacting? I need help, asap.
2007-08-07
16:24:00
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See the thing is, she has two jobs. I only have one. She atleast makes about 300 more then me every two weeks. I just don't know where it goes. I think it just may be she spends like she has it and to hell with what happens next. This is the impression I have only because she won't tell me what is really going on in her head. I have until Feb to live with this cause the lease is signed and what's done it done. I can't afford to even give her a few bucks if I wanted to cause I myself am living paycheck to paycheck.
Thanks for all the advice so far, I know whatever I do it's going to be insanely hard. I just wanted to know if I was justified in what I was feeling.
2007-08-07
16:43:20 ·
update #1