can it be true that the person u married is not ur soul mate..my friend recently told me she loves her hubby but might not be her soul mate..>? how can u tell whos ur soul mate?
2007-08-07 16:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by ~Ashley~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is just me, but i believe if you have to ask "is this my soulmate" then he's not it. you will just KNOW. sometimes these things come out of the blue when you're least expecting it. and you will just know.
found mine :)
2007-08-07 16:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by jmprince01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's my opinion...
I don't think the idea of fate and soul mates is real. For me, I'm happily married; however, I know my husband is not the only man on the face of this earth that I could be compatible with. Time and location plays two major roles in your life when finding your significant other. If I was ten years older and lived half-way around the world, I'm sure I would find a man that I could live happily ever after with. It just so happens at this point in my life and the place I live, I found a wonderful man whom I love and I plan to stay married to.
As for your friend, if she believes her husband is not her soul mate and she chooses to continue the journey in finding him... she may be single for a very long time. It's ridiculous to think that one, and only one, "perfect" person in this world is the right one for you. It's like finding a needle in a haystack. If one believes their spouse is not their soul mate, perhaps they're expecting to much out of the relationship? You should be happy with the spouse you have, and look at their good traits rather than their bad. Afterall, nobody is perfect and surely, marriage isn't easy... even if you do believe you married your "soul mate."
2007-08-07 16:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO SUCH THING as a soul mate. Jeez. Think about it. IF there were only one person in the world who was your soul mate, how would you ever find him? He might be in Russia, China or Bulgaria! The fact is, there are many people you could marry and be happy with. You just have find ONE. If she's got a good guy, she should work on the marriage and attempt to be happy.
2007-08-07 16:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in the term "soul mate". You either love each other or you don't. If a married person is always thinking about what they are missing they won't be married for long. Tell your friend to focus on loving her husband and forget about the "soul mate" fairy tale.
2007-08-07 16:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by sunnybrooke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubt is a powerful and destructive force. Once you open the door, you may not get it closed again.
I recommend you don't even open the door. Don't worry about the questions you cannot answer like how do you tell if someone is your soul-mate.
The other thing I would recommend is stop thinking too much. Doubt feeds on overactive thinking.
If you still are plagued by doubt. Make a list of pros and cons.
All we truly have is simple, blind faith.
2007-08-07 16:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to write a letter to Santa Claus explaining her dilemma to him. Santa will consult with Mother Nature and Father Time to discover the name of the man Destiny chose as her "soul mate." If the man she married is truly her "soul mate," Santa will dispatch the Tooth Fairy to leave a bright shiny silver coin under her pillow to reveal the good news. Otherwise he will send the Easter Bunny to leave a rotten egg on her doorstep to disclose her misfortune.
Or your friend could simply start living in the real world. She can either learn to appreciate her husband, whom she claims to love, and make the best of her marriage. Or she can leave him and get out of a bad marriage if she is truly unhappy.
2007-08-07 17:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think except waiting for our soul mate we should go and find a person who has a good soul.... Soul mates are very very hard to find.... BA :: No I don't have one....
2016-05-21 03:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by alexandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would seem to be a dilemma for a lot of people on Yahoo Answers.
We had a guy tell my wife that she was his soul mate. Well duh, sorry..I'm kinda partial to her at the moment, give us a few years to think about that one.
That's the problem with most people, they keep looking for "mythes and legends" and fail to live their lives.
2007-08-07 16:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her - too late - especially if she has children - and to quit looking and turn him into her soul mate. We guys are pretty gullible and trainable - you can get us to do pretty much whatever you want if you love us and are smart.
2007-08-07 16:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by vegasrob89118 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just know it, you love everything about that person, you finish each other's sentences, you think of the same things and it just goes on and on for years and years, it's awesome!!!
2007-08-07 16:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋