I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years, but in the past he lied to me...A LOT! He doesn't as much anymore...should I still be worried? Should I not marry him. I feel stupid, but just curious if he deserves a chance.
2007-08-07 14:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The part that struck me about your question was that he doesn't lie to you "as much". Any amount is of lying in a relationship is an unacceptable to maintain trust. So YES I would have concern about that pattern.
I would set a boundary that there is honesty in your relationship or there will be no relationship at all.
Marriage is hard work and trust is a major component a successful one.
2007-08-07 14:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by www.stephaniehardwick.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to be lied to for the rest of your life, go ahead. The fact that you are posting this question should tell you maybe you are not ready to marry him.
2007-08-07 14:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on what he's lied to you about. Has he asked you to marry him???
Well good luck.
2007-08-07 14:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Chicoaa20 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi;Don,t marry him .If hes lieing to you now.You know he will lie when your married.Then it will be too late..Find an nice honest,and caring guy who will look out for you and be you best friend.Thats what marrage is all about..Good Luck.....JW
2007-08-07 14:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by whitfield185 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on-don't look here for sympathy-we like to help,not listen to the same mindless dribble over and over again
2007-08-07 14:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋