well two of my 3 sisters are bi and when i see a girl with a hot body i feel the same as when i see a guy with a hot body.. but for me it just seems weird to think im bi.. i thinks its because im not used to it.. it is normal? am i bi? i dont think being bi is a wrong thing. im for same sex marriage and all but i dont know if im bi... please help.. and please be serious. thanks =]
2007-08-07 13:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by Jasmine 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes sometimes i think girls are retty. i never kissed a girl and thats why im confused.
2007-08-07 13:53:45 · update #1
oh and im 15
2007-08-07 13:56:07 · update #2
im not saying being gay runs in the family.
2007-08-07 14:46:05 · update #3
Yes, it's pretty normal so don't worry about that part. If you are SEXUALLY attracted to both guys AND girls then yes, you are bi.
Join your clan of sisters, lol!
Btw, how old are you anyway?
2007-08-07 13:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, this is what I have advised other people when asking the same question:
Don't buy into what other people telling you about attraction. Being lesbian or bisexual is more than just liking the way someone pleases your senses. There is technically a whole lifestyle involved that you have to decide if you are a part of or not.
If you are college age (or close enough) you can check your local universities. Most have a Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual organization on campus and they would be happy to talk to you about things or at least help you get some appropriate literature.
If there isn't one in your area, then you can also do a search for other web advice sites like Scarlet Teen to learn more about yourself.
There is no way one person will be able to give you a simple answer here about something as important as your life. You'll just have to find some people to talk to who won't judge you for your ideas, do some research, and decide if it's something that's right for you!
2007-08-07 20:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dominus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it sort of depends on how you think of it. It's normal to think a girl is pretty, whether your a guy or girl. That doesn't automatically make you bi. But only you really know whether you're bi or not. Do you want to kiss a girl? Or just think she's pretty? If the answer's yes to the first question, then you might be bi.
2007-08-07 21:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ellophante 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. Despite your two sisters being bi, it's not genetic, so it doesn't run in the family. I don't think it's wrong, I have no problems with it. It's for you to discover, how though I'm not sure.
2007-08-07 20:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dylan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I really think you're too young to start worrying about being gay!!! I don't think that being gay "runs in the family" either!!! I can look at a guy and know if he's hot or not and I know that I'm not queer. I just say don't worry about it, if you are you are, if not, not. You'll know for sure in time, just be a kid while you can!!!!
2007-08-07 21:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking a girl is pretty is one thing. If you enjoy kissing guys and girls, then that would mean for sure you are bi. That would be a better indication than thinking someone is pretty, handsome, or hot. In what situations do you feel there is chemestry?
2007-08-07 20:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by jennysmith0214 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nice question, very nice. You already know the answer, yes you are bi. Now go get yourself a hot girl for some steamy girl on girl action!
2007-08-07 20:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk with sisters about it..maybe they can help out..or fine some other bi gal..hey hon..i am bi..love it to..Gals know how to get another gal off..if u know what i mean..good luck
2007-08-08 05:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who we are attrected to has little to do with logic and a lot to do with biology, genetics, upbringing, and it's mostly good.
Basic sexual ethics 101---first do no harm.
Second---don't tell stories about your ex's. Always speak well of former lovers.
Third---Protect yourself. There is almost no such thing as a sexually transmitted disease that travels from female to female. but guys can give you ALL KINDS OF SH1T. So protect yourself around guys.
Fourth---There is no right or wrong around who you are attracted to. There are HUGE amounts of right and wrong about how you handle yourself around all this stuff.
Play nice---be good---good luck.
2007-08-07 20:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of my girlfiends once told me that all women are bi and some just don't admit it.
2007-08-07 20:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Maximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋