(Gee! In the first place I wouldn't want to ever lose a friend.)
Think about all the good things that your friend have treasured about you...Your thoughtfulness and kindness to her...Your being there like a shoulder to cry on when she's down and feeling low...Your patience in keeping her company while in her shopping spree...Those late late nights when you lent her your ears for all the nuts and nonsense.
Now,..be the exact OPPOSITE of everything you were to her...That'll bring a series of never ending question marks on her head...which she'll never have the answers anymore.
2007-08-08 14:52:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Two of the best ways I can think of are: 1) either you or friend gets married [when neither was married before], and 2) either you or friend has children [when neither had children before].
Both are major events that force major changes in our lives--especially having children. Gone are the days of barhopping or hitting the club and sometimes even just hanging out or meeting up for dinner.
You never really lose true friends but the way life works sometimes we just move apart and it's not always a bad thing. You can still be happy for them while being sad about the change in relationship.
2007-08-13 16:56:04
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answered by Sin™ 6
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Hey Moon. Another way? OK I am good at this game. Challenge them to competitive games and beat them mercilessly for the 18th time in a row. Only works if you are a girl though. Men can win every time without raising an eyebrow. So if you are a girly, make sure you lose sometimes. Now why didn't I listen to my mother?
2007-08-07 13:24:24
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answered by Anonymous
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making someone's life a living hell is never a "good way" of losing a friend. They may be going through some tough times as it is, ya know?
but if they're the type that absolutely REFUSES to leave you alone, tell them [kindly] that you need some space, or maybe help them find some other new friends.
hey, telling them about Jesus may not be a bad idea, either!
2007-08-07 13:29:13
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answered by poppyseed 3
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Growth and evolution and this by neutral means does always provide for the "good" way of loss, for nothing withstands the inertia of growth and evolution.
None has a charm against these two, for beneath these is the call from out of the heights, High Love insisting that we move ever onward and ahead.
2007-08-13 11:29:55
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answered by ? 6
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the only good way to lose a friend is to sever all forms of communications with them, the most hurtful way is to be an jerk like most are suggesting, or if this friend happens to be understanding(most are not) tell them that its time to part ways, and then u both end the friend ship on an even scale.
2007-08-14 08:44:00
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answered by dragon_master_blade 1
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Obviously you don't know the difference between friend and acquaintance. You will find life has few friends and you won't, but will, lose too many. Be straight up with people from the beginning if you expect to have any friends later.
2007-08-07 13:25:55
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answered by Anonymous
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You know, i really don't like how most people do/have done it, and probably will disagree with everyone who answers your question..... However, i value honesty, therefore i would simply tell them. Not scheme behind they're back, not try to overreact about some stupid thing they did. Not some rude thing. Just say "why" you don't want the friendship.
2007-08-07 13:22:40
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answered by jstewart92 2
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There is NO "good way" to lose a friend, and if you want to lose that person on purpose, you are no friend of his.
2007-08-07 13:21:17
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answered by sharmel 6
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The best way for them is if you allow them to lose you. The best way for you is to no longer consider them a friend.
2007-08-07 14:08:46
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answered by dhamca 3
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