My parents are so strick... I HATE IT! They think i am going to go out and have sex and do drugs and smoke... ect. Yes of course ive been offered... And i have takin sips of wine at weddings ect. but nothing hard core I just dont know y my rents dont trust me!! I already know wut half u ppl r ganna say... They are just lookin out 4 u they love u they r afraid of other ppl... And crap lyk tht but it worse!! They are crazy over protective! They even wanted me to be homeschooled at 1 point so i would be a safe little grl 4ever! I am almost 15 and dont say im a teen and i am stupid ect... but im not My friend came from PA to my house and my mom was freaking out when we went for a walk (and i live in a nice neighborhood out in noweresville) And she came home from looking for me and she was screaming at me! What should I do to get there trust? Or what could I do to let them let me do stuff? cause when i am 18 i am totally out of this hell hole! Please help me... and does n e 1 else life suck
2007-08-07 12:46:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's pretty harsh. E-mail me cuz i wanna talk to you more.
2007-08-07 12:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Kelsi♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom is the same way. when me and my friends go out i usually end up coming home late like 2 or 3 in the morning and she wanted to give me a cerfew. i told her "i have never done drugs and i dont drink... i dont hangout with people who drink, smoke, do anything illegal. you know all of my friends and u have never seen me come home drunk or high. i have never been in trouble at school and you dont have the school calling the house because i got in trouble". i told her that cerfews are for kids who get brought home by the cops and i'm nt a bad kid and i get good grades so what the problem? she even threated to get a drug test and i told her go ahead u wont find anything
2007-08-07 12:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jukebox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry im goin through similar type stuff, and im 17- i think ur parents just really love you ALOT that they dont want ANYTHING to happen to u- but u still need to live, and sometimes some bad things hav to happen so u can learn form ur mistakes, maybe u shud have a talk with them calmly- no yelling! and explain that u need a little more freedom, etc. seems like theyre just having problems letting "go" of you since ur growing up too fast etc. typical parent stuff im assuming! they were young once too if u talk to them somehow maybe theyll come around?? GOOD LUCK! :)
2007-08-07 12:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are VERY over protective. They think they have your best interest and all they are doing is pushing you away. There may be no way to get them to trust you but you are on the computer so they must trust that you aren't doing bad things on the computer. Hang in there.
2007-08-07 12:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by friend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest you just have to live your life. three years goes by quickly. and i know how you feel my dad is crazy. i am as well counting down the days till i get out of this "hell hole". haha. i guess you could just study really hard and get into a faraway college and become successful at whatever you want to do. thats what im doing.
2007-08-07 12:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by selena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Elena,
Life sucks. Well, what can you do. You have to take orders from the bosses 'till you are 18.
It could be worse. I was the good kid and got blamed for all the stuff my sister (the bad kid) did.
2007-08-07 12:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my parent (single mom) is crazy strict with me. i can't even go out without her calling me a million times. this makes me wonder why i wanted that stupid cell phone in the first place...? but then i look at the rest of my family and i see how messed up they are...and i realize i'm kinda glad she's over protective. my cousin just got out of juvi and now she's on probation...and she still sneaks out at night going to house parties. i think your parents will eventually let you go...you just gotta prove to them that they can trust you and everything will be smooth sailing...
2007-08-07 12:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by ©Rack! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's pretty bad. Just talk with your parent's and tell them that you don't do all the stuff they think you do and you are carefull and are good and tell them to be a little less protective!
2007-08-07 12:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by thesims707 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wanna go have sex, do drugs and smoke? but seriously the worst is to come. high school sucks but life gets better
2007-08-07 12:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jackson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way but i thanked my parents for being so strict cuz after you're 18 you gonna see the real world how dangers and tricky it is, am 19yrlod now and am just surviving.
2007-08-07 12:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋