How would you feel if your boyfriend went to a baby shower for a coworker when he had 4 abortions with his previous girlfriends?
2007-08-07 10:39:46 · 15 answers · asked by fanny gardener 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its pretty hard for me not to judge... I'm finding this all a little weird!!
2007-08-07 10:53:57 · update #1
I think it's more important how you feel about being the girlfriend of a boyfriend who had 4 abortions with his previous girlfriends....
2007-08-07 10:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know how I would feel. If it were something that would inconvenience me for the night, I'd probably be a little upset for the reasons you've stated. However, I'm not judging you, but how do YOU feel about him having 4 previous abortions? I know ultimately the decision is out of his hands, but how would he react if you were pregnant?
2007-08-07 18:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think anything of it, because he is going to support them having a baby. Now, if you want my opinion on what are you doing with a guy that has had 4 abortions with other girlfriends...that is a whole other story. I don't understand guys that don't use any kind of birth control and don't think about the consequences of unprotected sex BEFORE the act.
2007-08-07 18:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by drruth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The two scenarios are totally unrelated.....
Though I disagree with his use of abortion as birth control, it has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that he's supporting a friend/co-worker during her pregnancy...
I'm sorry, but I can't understand why you are concerned?
2007-08-07 19:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... if he's invited and wishes to attend that's really his choice in my opinion. I wouldn't really mind.
I'm not sure how his (and his previous girlfriend's) choices fit into celebrating with a co-worker? The two seem completely separate to me.
2007-08-07 17:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Arneb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's okay by me. Sounds like someone is jealous, though. Perhaps needs to reconsider what the word "Love" really means and get a new boyfriend.
2007-08-09 01:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the baby shower is for the person having the baby not the guests.just because he does not want a child does not mean he's not happy for others who do.
2007-08-07 17:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by niki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fail to see how one is related to another. Just because he and his girlfriend decided against having kids themselves does not mean that he is against anyone else having kids either. He was invited to a party. Why shouldn't he go?
2007-08-07 17:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by kittiesandsparklelythings 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with it. Co-ed showers are a blast!
2007-08-07 17:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Wendi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think the two are related...
to be technical about it, it wasn't actually HIM that had the abortions, either... if you have issues concerning this, why are you with him?
2007-08-07 18:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋