why do women continue to act like they're the ones that have to look perfect to be considered attractive?

Question

there is absolutely no doubt that women have it easy compared to men. all kind of women of all ages are considered attractive by men. the percentages of women most men find attractive are really high compared to the percentages of men women find attractive. if you don't believe me, look my questions about this.

and who do you think should be more worried about aging? women in their 30s and 40s are considered very attractive, even by guys in their teens and 20s. you're always hearing about guys fantasizing about their teachers and theirs friends' moms. GIRLS in their teens and early 20s never look at guys over 30. and women in general find more guys under 25 sexy than guys over 25.

women only think they have to look like supermodels to be attractive. the truth is guys have different preferences and even the average and below average girls are considered hot by a lot of guys.

a woman's idea of an unconventionally attractive guy she finds hot is a cute guy rather than a handsome guy or a guy with cool hair rather than a guy with a sexy body. most guys are not considered attractive by any women while most women are considered attractive by guys.

correction d.d : when we men get older, we DON'T start looking at younger girls. i'm 19 and i'm already almost as interested in older women(late 20s and 30s) than girls my age. most men find women in their 30s much sexier than teen girls.

it is you WOMEN who only want attention from guys in their teens and early 20s and find most guys over 30 to be ugly.

and yes, despite the fact the you grow much faster then men, there are plenty of guys in their teeens and 20s who find women over 35 really sexy, yet there is almost no girls in their teens and 20s who find guys over 35 sexy.

Answer 1

It's becoming a media phenomena that is spiraling out of control, IMO.

The advertisements, products (TV, Internet, & Mag's), and culture have us women chasing our tails on being "En Vogue."

Not only does it have us chasing our tails, but we're so preoccupied by it that we forget to look at men. So, men then become complacent with their appearance because they don't get told, "That's not working for you" by anyone. So they are fashion disasters. This works for the young men; but becomes problematic and disasterious for the older man who's lost track of time.

Even the man who's married and settled finds himself over weight, out of fashion, and socially unacceptable. Some wives will make efforts to fix him, while other wives find it comforting to secure their men with this bad fashion to divert adultry. With this later strategy, the woman's often letting her spouses health go for security. In turn this can also backfire by allowing her to get sloppy too. Then this spirals into two people with little or no fashion sense trying to get out of their rut.

Answer 2

Something is off here... I believe it's the part about guys liking older women and girls not liking older men...

Totally not true. Actually I've found that there are many girls who have daddy issues who are really into way older men. And, women tend to go for older guys anyway. This is generally due to them having a higher paying job since they've been in the job market longer.

But also a misconception that society has created - older men are more mature. While totally not necessarily true, girls will recite it over and over again. Then they figure out the truth at the age of 30-35... kinda funny, really. Oh, this may be why you like older women, after 30 they start accepting reality instead of only seeing their own fantasy and getting disappointed left and right. (Disclaimer: of course not all women fallow this pattern, but it's a common trend nonetheless.)

Answer 3

Well you are a different breed of man, believe me.
And yes, GIRLS do look at men over 30. When I was 24, just before I got married, I went out with a 40-year-old man. Before I dated him, I dated a 32-year-old man. Then, I turned around and married a 23-year-old, go figure!
My husband was an anomaly in my dating history; I was always attracted to older men.
Women continue to act like they need to look perfect to be considered attractive because the media constantly bombards us with that ideal. Also, you guys do slobber over the perky blondes with the perfect bods...don't deny it!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Duh because we havr a higher sensitivty rate and also we grow alot faster than men, and when we pass 20's you men start looking at the younger women, so that's why we try to look more young and attractive for you men who are so horny.