first of all, i'm very sorry and my heart goes out to you.
here's the question:
would you rather have not gotten pregnant at all than to have a still born child or misscarriage? or does the fact that you provided life, if even for a very short time, give you comfort and make you happy to have been pregnant?
thanks.
2007-08-07 07:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would have rather have not been pregnant. I got pregnant back in Feb. of this year and at six weeks had a miscarriage. My husband and I were both devastated! Mother's day was horrible, Father's day was horrible, and just pretty much everyday for a while sucked. We decided we were going to wait after that, but here I am 9 weeks pregnant with our second child. I still think about what happened and I still cry. I just wish that so many women did not go through this experience. It sucks that it happens so often.
2007-08-07 07:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by queenofkings2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only and still only child Katelynn was stillborn at 20wks. two yrs ago and honestly I am so very grateful for the life God gave me even though it was for a short time, it made me more aware of what can go wrong, wakes you up to the fact that life is a gift and we must cheerish it instead of taking it for granted, being gratful for those that we have in our lives. It never crossed my mind that these things happen until it happened to me.... I probably wouldnt have been able to say this when it happened as I was so angry and still do get angry but now know that my daughter and these other babies were meant to be ANGELS!!! Life's precious treasures that will never be any trouble at all except in that silent moment when our tears wont turn off.
2007-08-07 09:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by emerald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'd been trying to get pregnant for a while and had been told that we were unlikely to get pregnant naturally so we were very excited when we did, then I miscarried at 9 weeks. While I was going through it I wished I had never got pregnant, but it didn't take me long to be glad that I had been pregnant even if it was for a short time. I now have 2 beautiful children, but still sometimes think of the one that I lost.
2007-08-07 08:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by beckyf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been pregnant three times and have two children. The miscarriage was an unplanned pregnancy, and to be honest, I was in an extremely bad place in my life. I didn't even know I was pregnant until I was losing it. It is still something that crosses my mind from time to time. So I guess I would have to say that I wish I had never been pregnant at all, that time.
2007-08-07 07:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's a great question. For the most part, I'm glad I knew about it, in alot of ways, it changed me for the better. It was over a year ago now and i still think about that baby and cry for it but not as often as when it first happened. and now I'm 20 weeks pregnant!! I look at it as one of those "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger" things
2007-08-07 08:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would of not like to known cause it breaks my hearts every time I think about. I had a miss carriage this past weekend. I have cried until I can't cry anymore.
2007-08-07 07:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thanks, to being pregnant in the first place.
It's extremely hard on _both_ would've-been-parents.
(Edit: _that_ is a thumbs-down answer? Uh, okay. Your husbands enjoyed the miscarriages or something? Very odd...)
2007-08-07 07:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋