my life is better my ex is out my life now but my family is mad at me for going out with him how do i make things better between my and my family
most of them r now sayin i told ya soo and im upset because i loved him
but i need my family because im only 15 and i love my family even thou they are mad at me for dating this guy and i relized i made a mistake going out with him because he was an asshole to my family thats why i left him
2007-08-07 06:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by llg1092 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks guys and i think im just going to plan a family outin so we can talk
2007-08-07 06:24:58 · update #1
Its gonna take time. and Unfortunately more so because, as you say, the guy was an "A" hole. That is something most family members wont forget. But in time and a new and nicer guy in your life, I am sure they are gonna let it go. Of course you know, the new guy is gonna have his work cut out for him too. Sounds like your family will ultimately be there for you.
1 Breath
2 Be willing to admit "he" was a mistake
3 Love your family they certainly are looking out for your best interest.
2007-08-07 06:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by dayhawk4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family that a wise person once told you that bought sense is the best sense, and unfortunately, you've paid for yours. But explain that now that YOU know what a mistake it was to go out with him, it's one you won't make again. When people change their behavior based on the advice of others, they tend to go back, replay the situation, and a lot of times, get back into the negative behavior. When you find out for yourself - well then you know.
2007-08-07 13:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by HipHopGrandma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think time will heal this situation between your family and you . Spending time talking playing games or going places as a family. In time you will realize all you can do is choose a lot better with your next boyfriend that he respects you as well as you family.
I wish you good luck!!!!! :)
2007-08-07 13:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Trina_F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shouldnt they be happy that he is out of your life? but thats also wrong of them to be like "i told you so" because they s hould have been supportive from the beginning because it made YOU happy not them. so dont let them bring you down. just be strong and everything will be okay =]
2007-08-07 13:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you jut gonna have to hear it for a little bit, thats all. It will blow over in a few days.
2007-08-07 13:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a realy hard thing to go through this will sound corny but follow your heart.
this he love you?
if he does tell him what you fell so probably he will understand
well good luck!
2007-08-07 13:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nikky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
then why are you going out with him? you're only fifteen, do you know how many guys that you're going to meet. leave him alone and find someone else better, believe me their out there
2007-08-07 13:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by hot tea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whow that is something they should be very glad he is gone for sure you are very young to be married any way where you located at that you could get married at your age young ladie
2007-08-07 13:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will blow over, learn from your mistakes and go on.
2007-08-07 13:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋