did you ever feel?

Question

like you just want to run away ... from everything?
like everything is just too tough and complicated, and you can't find a way to solve anything ... like the only solution is to leave everything behind ... for ever

Answer 1

I think you need change, and probably a mini vacation.Yes we all get "boxed in" at times, But it's up to you to reinvent yourself! get a makeover,trade in your car, get a myspace profile, Also volunteers are always welcome to do some detective work, like Internet fraud, or sexual predators.
good luck

Answer 2

I think most people feel this way at one time or another without acting upon this unrealistic impulse. It's simply one of the ways our brain allows us to escape and indulge in the possibilities of starting over with a clean slate and with the hope that our world would somehow be better than it is right now. Actually if anyone took flight the only thing that would change would be location because human beings will always face the good, the bad and the confusing things of life, and we will continue to make mistakes - probably not the same ones we made before but we remain imperfect beings in an imperfect world. It is very difficult to run away from ourselves because no matter where we go or what we do we're still the same person.

Answer 3

Yes, but even when someone is actually on the verge of ending it all, just remember that problems are temporary. Most problems will resolve themselves within a matter of days or a couple of weeks. If you are talking about suicide, that is a permanent solution to these temporary problems.

If you are just talking about running away or moving away from the area, that could solve some problems. But, most of the time you take the problems with you and create even more. Stick it out. Find a church you like and get involved. Things will work out.

Answer 4

i used to feel like that when I was young and also when I was deep into my drug addiction. I have been clean for five years now, and the only way I got through all that was to keep going forward and staying strong when I felt like quitiing. It made me better and stronger. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. It is these times that we learn our most important life lessons. . It truely will define you later in life. Now i share my experience and past challenges with people to inspire and give them some kind of hope. Life feels rough at time, but the more you keep waling through it, the better you become and the more you appreciate all of lifes little struggles. It is easy to give up, it takes alot of strength courage and faith to trudge through things, there is one thing for sure, as long as you hold strong you will always come out on the other side. It may be uncomfortable for a min, and the results may not be what you wanted, but in the end it is gonna be alright no matter what. YOu can do it

Answer 5

Yes, I had that feeling the other day. I loaded up the parcels into my car, and was taking the trolley back, and I thought, "what if I just walked away right now? what would happen if I left this all behind and just never looked back?" Then I thought of the few people that I truly care for, and thought, "I can never leave them." So I went back to the car, and back to reality. A holiday for a week of forgetting about everyone else would be good, it has to be, cos that's all the fantasy I can afford!

Answer 6

No I have never felt that way. I always try to get round problems but taking action, small things get you moving in the right direction and then its not as daunting as thinking about the problem as being huge and unsolvable. If someone was feeling this way then Id suggest they talk about it, to their family, friends, GP anyone that could help, because talking about it is the first small thing that starts to tackle the big problem and before you know it its not so big and complicated and your closer to the solution, because there is always a positive solution to every and any problem, no matter how tough it first seems.

Answer 7

Yes I do feel like that sometimes... but I think it would just make things worse.
Try to take a little Mini Vacation or a Weekend Getaway or something like that with a friend or alone if you prefer....

some where you can unplug and relax... to get your mind of things, maybe even getting pampered a bit at a spa etc...
I do that every now and then and it's like I am a new person and feel totally rejuvenated.

Take care & let me know how it went : )

Answer 8

absolutely..... too much is sometimes too much... you just want to shut down...
the best thing is to go for a long walk and get away from everybody. leave the cell phone and i-pod at home and take off walking or on your bike....
stay away for at least an hour.
some people do yoga or breathing exercises, but you need to be somewhere that you will not be disturbed... so you can decompress.....
when you come back you will be calmer and more relaxed and you should deal with one thing at a time, that is the easiest way to solve problems.. don't over fill your plate, you won't be able to do it.....

Answer 9

Wow been their done that. It's so not worth it, well at least not for me. I'll give you some advice though, when i am feeling like i can't take it anymore i listen to the Red Hot Chili Peppers. They are such a great band with a lot of meaningful lyrics. Listen to "Don't Forget About Me", real good song! No joke , furthermore think about positive things and " Tis shall to Pass". Peace and Love

Answer 10

Yes. i left home 2 months ago. Sometimes its not clear why we feel the need to runway from our lives. Maybe we're really trying to run away from ourselves. Our problems are there because who we are aren't dealing with them. You need time out to think by yourself. I love it when I get a resolve like an epiphany about something in my life or about myself. Seek and you will find. and remember to reflect on the past thing s friends have said or better still what your enemies say. I feel that when you consider what people say to you in a serious sense not a nasty one even when you feel challenged by the person, you gain a better insight about your life.

Answer 11

Absolutely... but then you smack yourself in the face and say "What were you thinking, you idiot?" Life is too precious to waste it by thinking such self-defeating thoughts. Pick yourself up and start thinking logically about your challenges and come up with strategies to deal with them. That is the first positive step toward digging yourself out of that hole. You might also consider asking for help from a minister, a trusted family member or friend, or a psychologist ... someone you can trust to help you emerge like a phoenix from the ashes. Best of luck to you!