2007-08-07 04:46:01 · 43 answers · asked by enki 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
lonely to be scared. Fear keeps one debilatated, totally paralysed and this is a very lonely state. Keeps you from going out, enjoying things. A prisoner. Nothing but a prisoner.
But scared to be alone will actually achieve the opposite. Fear creates desperation, and desperation will push the person to go out and surround themselves and be with people as intimately as they can so they WILL NOT be alone!
2007-08-07 04:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are Lonely to be scared that means that you are Scary to be alone? Right? If I`m alone and I`m scared that means that I`m scary to be alone. Right?
2007-08-07 04:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Future 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're alone in the dark, trapped in a science class with a testing corpse lying on the table next to you, it's scary to be alone. But if you're home by yourself doing everything you shouldn't be-chatting on the phone for hours, using the laptop, etc-and having a great time, it's not scary to be alone.
If you're physically abused by your parents and they beat you everytime you come home, yet you have nowhere to go and nobody to talk to and are petrified, it's lonely to be scared. But at the same time, if a terrible fire is swallowing your house and you're outside with your family surrounding you and protecting you, with firemen putting the fire out, you'd be scared, but it wouldn't be lonely to be scared.
2007-08-10 19:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
((Afternoon, Enki))
SCARY to be ALONE.
When I'm scared, I know that there are millions of other people who have experienced the same feeling or much much worse. Therefore, I'm not lonely. There's a comfort in knowing that others understand and those who have experienced have survived and become stronger. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!
When I'm alone, there's a feeling of 'helplessness' because I cannot call for help from anybody, nobody understands. I know that getting through pain is a whole lot easier when you have somebody there to hold your hand and support you. Its normally those that give up on life and its difficulties because they have nobody to lead them out of the darkness, no motivation to live.
Enjoyed your question.
Best wishes.
2007-08-08 01:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, they both are lonely feelings..sometimes when we are scared..we feel alone.
But knowing that we are alone, or have to be alone, that is scary too!
Like, I just started a new job at a hospitol, and i had to be alone very soon doing my work..that was scary! I didn't know what was really gonna happen, but it is fine now..ok anyways..I feel they are equally scary!
2007-08-07 13:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by IslandOfApples 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
~~~ At first it was SCARY to be ALONE after my Husband had to leave Earth. I had never been ALONE before in my life. I wasn't even twenty one yet and was my parents last kid at home,when I moved in with Cliff,and became an instant Mother to his children. We had over twenty three years together,and the kids grew up and were on there own when he left. So,again my life changed instantly and it was the scariest thing to happen to me knowing I would be all ALONE. It took me awhile, but I worked through that,and now I enjoy being ALONE. In fact I love it! Yet,it gets very LONELY when I am SCARED and he isn't here to make me feel better. ~~~
2007-08-07 13:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by donelle g. 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Lonely to be scared
Being alone anyone can do, just some people arent used to it
Being scared no-one can see what you are scared of and dont understand why you could be scared of something they arent scared off
2007-08-07 04:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by mary L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is scary to be Alone, because when I am alone it seems that I can hear lots of noise around the House, and when I am with my Husband, the House, is very silent. My nerves? probably.
2007-08-07 11:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
interesting question. maybe its a circular thing. id say its scary to be alone if you are scared to be alone. being scared is lonely even if your in a crowded room, downtown, whatever. been there.
2007-08-07 04:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by deva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scary to be alone.
I feel that I'm destined to be alone. As a child this was my greatest fear. I tend to worry abut tomorrow rather then what's going on today.
I recently lost my mom and it all started up again.
Sad thing is now my dad is sick and it doesn't look good.
I'm also lonely to be scared.
Guess its a battle. Either way. It's not favorable.
Excellent Question!!
You got me thinking.
2007-08-07 15:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by hksimmons 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋